Dude, you crack me up. . .
Do you also believe every fisherman who tells you that he caught a 1,000 lb. Blue Marlin? Your average 21 year old is either a virgin or a kid who lost his virginity with the "fun girl" in school while she was drunk. There are very, very, very few 21 year olds who possess any game beyond, "Do I look like a drug dealer to you? Is kissing cheating?" And obviously, in terms of "life experience" you're way ahead.
This is good. So you know that you are mature. Now all you have to do is ALLOW it to benefit you in social situations. It's up to you.
So what? Did you or did you not get your glasses? Do you think pro athletes don't get butterflies when they run to the field? EVERYBODY gets those "feelings" but we interpret them differently. For some reason, our culture seems to think that "nervousness" is a bad while, "confidence" is a good. Thus, many of us seem to carry a hatred for "nervousness". There's NOTHING bad about it. You feel nervous and YOU'RE the one who is telling yourself, "This is bad, this is bad." Instead, just laugh and enjoy it. Just follow through with what you have to do. You felt nervous but you still conversed with you boss. That feeling you have inside you is a reminder that you're not dead.

Impact,

Psychological diagnosis is typically a "pick out of thin air" proposition even to professionals in a clinical setting. Telling a guy that he is psychologically damaged over a few forum posts says a lot more about your immaturity in regards to this topic than his psychological health. Take it easy with that stuff . . .

Other than that, you offered a lot of great advice other than . . .

The part where you think people should get pissed, angry, and jealous, etc . . . (I just don't agree with it)

You're a coach so I suppose you'll continue with what's been working for your students but these are all negative emotions. I don't understand how you believe negative emotions will project to POSITIVE actions. You made a point earlier that you get your students to act(actually react) to these negative emotions but don't you think that it is also possible to inspire students through "positive emotions"? (Especially so because our objective is to find, meet, and befriend people?)

Just as positive energy always finds a path, so too will negative energy. It can't be contained.

LOL . . . My QUESTION is:

Lol, I like both of your points... But I do agree with Impact's philosophy that people who become quickly angry are of lesser value.

Lions don't pout around acting tough, they lay back and let the sunshine blow on their backs.

Therefore, we must conclude that people who react negatively to a negative comment are of lesser value.

If Impact insulted me in any way, I'd just brush it off and try to combat his insult with a logical argument, rather than go "roar roar ima be bitin yo dik off sonnnn"

Kasabi, you're a very wise person, and I think you guys both have valid points.

We should stop arguing and hold hands and quite possibly touch ourselves in places we've never ventured.

Conclusively, we must all look at ourselves and judge who we really are.

To the thread starter:

I believe you are going through a mid-life crisis and you're getting depressed.

I have gone through these phases MANY times in my life and women seem to have always caused these negative feelings.

I think you should combat the negative emotions you possess with positive educational energy.

I think you should PM me and I will send you something that will change your life.

We are also attracted to youth - good posture, stylish clothing, and childish ways of speech are all things that will make you seem younger.

I saw a man at a local Lifetime gym who was easily in his 50s, but he was wearing some nice Guess jeans and some bright blue shoes (cool shoes no gay) with a nice shirt.

From the first glance, I thought he was in his 30s simply by the way he dresses.

Would you rather have 250 sets of people hate you/ think you're weird than the rest of the 3.5 billion females to adore you and be dying over you?

I don't care if I fail sets, as long as it improves my next set I will gladly take the chance.

If I fail 1 exam but I pass 10, I am still an avid student.

Failure is a part of life, do not look at it from a distance.

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