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 Post subject: Opening now what?
PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 1:26 pm 
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I know a lot of openers and then I don't know what to do.
It's going to a normal conversation but when do I throw neg's in?


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 1:56 pm 
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You don't need to neg if it's not congruent with you. BTW, neg is a disqualifier used before the confort stages to lower her defenses towards you. What you want to do is tease/ball bust to increase attraction. See the sticky by Jay Wa in the routines section for example of tease. But then again it may now be congruent with you so adapt with your style.

After the opener, run a few routines if you are using canned material to DHV. You can start with the 5 lies game or the cube. Throw in interesting storries about your self. Also when chit chatting, don't give away easy answers. i.e. if she asks:here are you from? don't answer 'from town xyz'. Come up with answers like 'What, I've just met you and youare already asking to come to my place! This is going way too fast for me, you'll have to cool down a bit!' delivered in a playfull way of course. If she asks again later ask her to guess. If she asks again you can tell her. Don't give anything easily. Stay mysterious. Lead the frame of the conversation.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 4:12 pm 
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You don't need to neg if it's not congruent with you. BTW, neg is a disqualifier used before the confort stages to lower her defenses towards you. What you want to do is tease/ball bust to increase attraction. See the sticky by Jay Wa in the routines section for example of tease. But then again it may now be congruent with you so adapt with your style.

After the opener, run a few routines if you are using canned material to DHV. You can start with the 5 lies game or the cube. Throw in interesting storries about your self. Also when chit chatting, don't give away easy answers. i.e. if she asks:here are you from? don't answer 'from town xyz'. Come up with answers like 'What, I've just met you and youare already asking to come to my place! This is going way too fast for me, you'll have to cool down a bit!' delivered in a playfull way of course. If she asks again later ask her to guess. If she asks again you can tell her. Don't give anything easily. Stay mysterious. Lead the frame of the conversation.

See what works for you.
i never thought of it like that.. if negs dont work flow with you dont really use them.. i personally found it hard to neg girls, and just never thought of moving on and just doing alternative things like staying as you said "mysterious".


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 Post subject: Re: Opening now what?
PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 7:13 pm 
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I know a lot of openers and then I don't know what to do.
It's going to a normal conversation but when do I throw neg's in?
I do it like this:

1. Opener+ little teasing concerning their answers ( like jealouse GF)
2. Hooking ( "How do you guys know each other", then they give you " hooks " where to grab if the energy level drops. )
3. New story or a game to DHV ( this new story can be an opener, games can be like " 5 lies- game, " best friend test " or the " masturbation test " which is my favourite " )


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 7:42 am 
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You don't need to neg if it's not congruent with you. BTW, neg is a disqualifier used before the confort stages to lower her defenses towards you. What you want to do is tease/ball bust to increase attraction. See the sticky by Jay Wa in the routines section for example of tease. But then again it may now be congruent with you so adapt with your style.

After the opener, run a few routines if you are using canned material to DHV. You can start with the 5 lies game or the cube. Throw in interesting storries about your self. Also when chit chatting, don't give away easy answers. i.e. if she asks:here are you from? don't answer 'from town xyz'. Come up with answers like 'What, I've just met you and youare already asking to come to my place! This is going way too fast for me, you'll have to cool down a bit!' delivered in a playfull way of course. If she asks again later ask her to guess. If she asks again you can tell her. Don't give anything easily. Stay mysterious. Lead the frame of the conversation.

See what works for you.

Hee really thank you for your advice but how works the 5 lies game or the cube?


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 7:45 am 
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I know a lot of openers and then I don't know what to do.
It's going to a normal conversation but when do I throw neg's in?
I do it like this:

1. Opener+ little teasing concerning their answers ( like jealouse GF)
2. Hooking ( "How do you guys know each other", then they give you " hooks " where to grab if the energy level drops. )
3. New story or a game to DHV ( this new story can be an opener, games can be like " 5 lies- game, " best friend test " or the " masturbation test " which is my favourite " )


[ Johnny B. ]
The masturbation test is that with

PUA: Did you know 93% of the woman sing when they take a shower, the other 7% mastrubate. but do you know what they 93% sing?
HB:no?
PUA: Then you must be the one who mastrubate.


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