Okay, broke up with chick, of 6 months. I lost all my appeal basically, fell off. I clocked this, turned shit around after a week, I could tell she saw this. I DHV's sickkk, I appeared not uninterested, or interested, i appeared indifferent. She initiated a lot of kino, in the form of being all close, and slyly resting her head against me [for a good while] with the escuse of looking at something[un verbal excuse] She asked me to come down and stay with her [she was moving down to uni] i turned her down saying i had stuff to do. I got asked again at another point. At her car, I made many jokes on people around us, who were asking what we had in this cage, i tricked them, made up huge unbelievable story, they fell for it, and she helped. Then I initiated kino with the back of my hand lightly against exposed skin on her chest and got closer, with the excuse of looking at this new charm on her necklace. I did this for a while, un creepily. She was about to leave, then sat there, pause, said ''should i have another cigarette?'' I responded with sure why not, they are your lungs. She got out, I sat in her car, then she paused and asked ''whats so important you cant come down to *area* with me?'' I told her I had stuff I wanted to get on with. She responds ''no im glad you are turning me down, shows you are getting on with stuff, its just arh grrrrr I really want you to come'' But I stuck to my guns and didnt go. I got calls off her where she eneded up telling me about this friend [who she used to fancy] is now appearing over interested in her. And she was finding it uncomfortable and didnt like it. She called when i was out, and had mates approach me while i was on the phone. etc. Then she called again the other day, more stories moaning about said guy. I thought all was going well, I txt her a simple 'Heya, how goes?' to which she replied 'not bad you?' so i responded in a foreign language [relevant but a joke], then said lol joking, been up to much. She left me hanging for 2 hours, and has just text back 'I have now'.

Can someone tell me if I've been reading her totally wrong? Was I wrong to think I was running shit well. Is she playing a game? Im going to txt back, though Im not sure what to say. Im thinking of calling her out on the disinterest in her messages. Wise, not wise?

~Blend

Well, I'm assuming that there's a reason that you broke up with her (if I read this right)

She wants you way bad. What you should end up doing is making plans with her some other thing. Make sure they're YOUR plans though - say something like "Pretty sure you should come over to my apt this weekend" or something like that. Make sure you sound confident that she'll end up going with you.

That IS if you want her again, but it sounds like you're kinda trying to decide whether you want her again. Remember why you broke up, and figure out if it's a good idea to go after her again.

Well she fell out of love with me. [I went through depression, fell of my game, etc etc]. Then she 'tried' to go back out with me, clearly this wernt working. I got pissed with her about some shit, and told her I be fucked if im staying with her. We broke up, I was all mega AFC. But that recently after i flipped it round, and i lost the look in my eye that i wanted her back. It changed her. I told her my friend said the invite for her to come our party is still there if she wants it. Which she even decided to cut off family who are flying over to come. I dont know if she will come, but its this weekend. I thought it will be a good chance for me to display my erm, value with my friends and shit. [though complications could happen here, bad ones]

Erm. But yeah, Im still not fully over her, Im actively seeking out other chicks, but still kinda miss this chick deep down. We [and she knows this] have a rare connection. n shit.

I will be with her again, if she ever wants to.[though before the day when i pimped shit she said she cant ever see her wanting to go back out with me, even though there will be times she misses 'us'] But i'll do it on my terms.
she did say she wants us as friends. But she aint mentioned friends sinse a while back, and i already told her we cant be friends.

~Blend.

well then play the game.

Can't get any easier than that. You both know that she wants to get back with you, make her chase you.

she responded that she is stoned. Not giving me much convo. Im thinking to say "im becoming disinterested in the conversation here, give me something stimulating to work with or we'll talk another day''

is this shit/afc/whatever? Or what else could I say/do?

Be more up front about it.

If she's stoned, drop that conversation.