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PostPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 2:40 pm 
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I need help guys...

Okays heres the problem I was into this wole PUA thing and i met the girl of my dreams. The girl had a BF and I showed her that he was a asshole that didnt deserve her. Eventually she left im and now I been with her almsot 8 months now in which I hanged up my PUA metods :)

The problem is that she has a homecoming which is just like a basic school dance. She wants me to go and already bought my ticket. The problem is I cant really dance... I know how to bachata and mirenge which is a form of spanish dancing but the dance is gonna be playing all of the latest hip hop songs and rock songs heard on te radio these days. From what I can tell my girl sucks at dancing as well lol but she knows how to booty grind and rock to rock songs.

I wanna totally dominate her on the dancefloor. I just wanna know some basic moves I can bring into each song so i dont look like I cant dance and how to use dancing with kino. Thanks guys for all your help :)


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I dont have problems aproaching or getting in a set. But once in a set. i run out of words to say. I guess u can call it a freeze. But i get away with number close or kiss close allot. but not for my speech. Mostly cause i isolate my target by asking her friends if i can borrow he for a dance. 8/10 always come allong because im not bad looking "ugh" and im a good dancer.
But i aint setteling down for 8/10 i want 10/10. so does any one know how to actully start a good convesation.
Sorry for the bad english im Dutch

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I always like dancing whenever I go out, and without sounding like bragging too much, consider myself better than average - what helped was plenty of training and competing when I was younger, mainly Hip-Hop/B-Boy style. And keep in mind I never even drink. But when it comes to approaching and meeting people I don't already know, I usually prefer that happens away from the dancefloor. The night environment is already challenging and competitive enough. Still though, I wont completely dismiss it.


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out last night dancing spotted a bracelet on the floor, picked it up and asked the girls standing there is it theirs...as i realized i thought this is a PERFECT opener, it might be an idea to bring out a cheap bracelet and use this to open. might sound wierd but tbh it is perfect as there is no pressure you.


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out last night dancing spotted a bracelet on the floor, picked it up and asked the girls standing there is it theirs...as i realized i thought this is a PERFECT opener, it might be an idea to bring out a cheap bracelet and use this to open. might sound wierd but tbh it is perfect as there is no pressure you.


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After trying to learn not to care what people think of me and just show I'm having a good time, basically I was dancing like a fool last night to test the waters and I did get some good looks which I should of closed but failed to do so, but im not sure if the dance floor is for me. :(


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Here is another aspect that hasn't been metioned yet: who you have with you on the dance floor!

The dance floor can be an immensly much productive place to pick up if you've established some good social proof first. Dancefloors, more than any other area of the club, have all of the single ladies focussed on what every other person is doing. They are checking out other girls to see if the fit in and to see fashion. They are checking out guys to see who the alphas are and who the douchbags are. They are looking to identify who's single and who is coupled.... Use this to your advantage!

Prior to going to the dancefloor bring at least one friend and at least one girl with you if at all possible. She can be a casual friend or a less attractive girl you are not interested in. It doesn't matter. If you've only got your guy buddy use the method that was stated a few posts ago - that was money! If you've got a fat girl dance with her non-sexually and respectfully. DO NOT make it look like you are trying to hook up with her and DO NOT make it look like you are making fun of her. Smile have fun, and let the hotties know you are there to have fun.

One of the most powerful things I've ever seen happen on a dancefloor happend in a bar called South in LA. 2 guys and 1 girl came onto the dancefloor and started switching off with a fake scotch jump rope routine. Immediatley every girl in the bar wanted the 2 guys because they appeared fun, single, and safe (girl with them)

Sorry to write so much but this is important. The company you keep on the dancefloor is very powerful


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Great stuff guys. I've been turned on to PUA for a little over 2 weeks now and can’t believe the positive reactions I've seen in me approaching women at bars. What I never realized is that I already had great Alpha Male potential on the dance floor.

I was mostly always an AFC, but I've learned thought time to become an incredible dancer. Most of the time, I'm lucky enough that a semi-crowd forms around me....I also think I'm above average looking and great peacock style. I always noticed women around me and I know I was getting serious EC, but most of the time I didn't have the balls to move and thought “they would come to me”.... after reading this thread and practicing PUA's recently, I will turn my skills into a huge advantage and go on the offinsive…

Thanks for all the info guys.


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I used to go clubbing as much as I could, but never really noticed any patterns to the dance floor other than their own little groups. But since reading this yesterday, and just returning from what I would say as a successful clubbing experience, it's really opened my eyes up!

Just have to get over whatever is stopping me from escalating once I'm in their dance circle.

PS: Was relying on alcohol those other times, tonight the only thing I had to drink was a bottle of water, feels good!


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Haven't seen this asked...

What do you do to go from dance floor to building comfort enough
to go beyond the dance floor?

When I go out at night, I only go to have fun...that's my mindset. I meet enough girls during the day, I truly like to just dance and have fun.

Naturally, this attracts girls on the floor...I have no problem opening and getting down with anybody on the floor.

But what can I do to from there back to somewhere else in the bar to one of our house's, etc.? Any routines or plays here that anyone uses on lock?

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Haven't seen this asked...

What do you do to go from dance floor to building comfort enough
to go beyond the dance floor?

When I go out at night, I only go to have fun...that's my mindset. I meet enough girls during the day, I truly like to just dance and have fun.

Naturally, this attracts girls on the floor...I have no problem opening and getting down with anybody on the floor.

But what can I do to from there back to somewhere else in the bar to one of our house's, etc.? Any routines or plays here that anyone uses on lock?

Holler,

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Man, I havent been in my own thread for so long but anyway...

The answer to your question is yes... you can do it on the dancefloor, I'm like you I truely like to dance now and not just for the fun of the pickup. Ive been actually practicing this and its possible... dancefloor game is good for attraction and certain parts of seduction because of the kino, if you want wipe out the chances of a flake...

talk to her about general stuff that goes with comfort building. After about 5 songs of dancing bounce her outside the DF for a drink or air... I dont do routines that are comfort based ... bouce her around the club and you will give her more memories for you and stop the flaking if ur experiencing that now

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Hi there.

I am having lots of trouble with dance foor game. First of all I am not a very good dancer so I dont fee very confident at it. I can follow the rythm though with no problem.
First time, I made it into the dance floor and just tried to dance by myself. Curiously, some women started to get near me and even one HB started to dance in front of me, making some indirect kino and the such. I didnt know how to capitalize on that though. After this episode, I came to the internet and did some reading on dance floor game, in this thread and some other artices.
So, my issue bassicay is:
I tried the hip check with like 8 sets and none made a hip check back, nor opened to me. What am I doing wrong?


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It's kind of hard to identify what exactly you would be doing wrong since there are many different factors out there. I would say try opening as soon as you get on the dance value to establish some social proof. Like Juice said real early on, try dancing with some of the last desirable women at first to show you are fun. Make sure you can get accepted into a group because dancing solo without a lot of dancing moves is going to come off wrong. However, working into an easy set will start working up that social image.

Again, try getting into those openers as soon as you can so you aren't left on your own in the dance floor. Even though you might not have the best moves, make the most out of it and just make sure you look like you're having fun.


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say bro, got a question
Im the type of guy that knows every dance to EVERY song ( your a jerk, stanky leg, my dougie etc.)
I have danced with SOO many girls, but what cant seem to figure out still, is how can i tell if they trying to dance with other guys or not? I see some girls getting low and soon as somone or me walks up behind them, they stop, and I see girls with their BF's coming up to me to dance, which is abruptly stoped by the by standing BF. So yeah what are some signs that they wanna dance or not.

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