so, this HB9 i met a few weeks ago has been pretty flakey lately. i met her at a club and #closed her. we hit it off pretty good, at least i thought so. had a few txt convo to keep her interested. about a few days ago she txt me to see what i was up to:

HB9: wats up
me: watchin a movie u
HB9: oh was gonna see if you wanted to watch a movie lol
me: nice how about later this week
HB9: sounds good
me: im thinkin wed u
HB9: yep!!

so the day comes so i start up the txt convo

me: wat movie do u want to see
HB9: hmm i dunno
me: k lion king it is
HB9: sounds great bring tissues ha ha

i leave it there to continue at a later time. so i call later on (about 4hrs later) to initiate the 'date'. no answer on the call so i shoot a txt. about an hr later i still don't get a response so i send 'so wats up??' and get a reply back saying that she is sick. i tell her that i hope she gets better and that i will talk to her later. she replies with thank you hun i hope so too. i am pretty sure that she was sick but this was not the first time she has blown me off.

i am trying to play it cool and not get hung up and get one-itis which has worked so far. i have other options and i hardly initiate contact with her because i am the prize in this.

any advice on what i should do about this HB9 that is flakey?
how can i get her to feel bad about putting me off and wasting my time?[/list]

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Nex Pro Inhonesto
-Death Before Dishonor

A freeze out is probably the best you can do in this situation

Make her take the initiative to hang out with you. Pull a line similar to "well, i'm a busy guy, and you already wasted my time once"