So whenever I walk into a club or bar around here there's always loud music and a million HB's dancing around and all that. Now I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not (haven't tried it) but should I just burst into a group and just start dancing? Or should I ask a girl to dance? Or should I just grab a girl? I've heard that it's not a good idea to engage dance floor game but it's hard to ignore.

Any help? Suggestions?

Grab the girl, that's what works best for me.

seriously.

i think some guy called tim made this move, i heard it from his videos.


at clubs, a lot of girls dance in circles. burst into the middle, grab the girl's right hand with your right hand, and twirl her.

dont do it in a creepy way, but a fun way. it shows you're impulsive and fun, without her even seeing your face.

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move fast enough, and you can move people from one *normal* to another.

whatever you do, make sure you dont hover around them for ANY period of time. You'll look like the common typical AFCs. or rather a complete loser.

I've been in enough clubs seeing some chumps slowly and gradually unconfidently worming their way towards a group of girls [who are usually dancing in circle], then they just kinda hover about behind them in hope that the girls will start to grind them/dance with them. They can be seen hanging here for about anywhere close to half hour, then decide to just subtly start grinding the chicks. The girls have already noticed them standing there and in their minds have the dudes labeled as unconfident creeps. and at this point look majorly uncomfortable when they feel a pair of afc hands lingering by their waist. So im just saying, once you're close to a group of girls, make your move asap, whatever it is, make contact. CONFIDENTLY.

How about if she comes over and starts grinding against your crotch, do you spin her then give her a snog or do you start kissing her from behind, or move until she's facing you.

Always a bit confused when this happens as this has been an approach more than once for me from a girl.

I fucking love you.

Touch my nipples.

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I guess what I'm trying to ask is if dancing is a better opener then normal approaches. I mean you CAN dance with a whole group so it makes sense

I wouldn't say that opening on the dance floor is better than other openers, but it is one of my favourite places to open girls.

The problem with dancing is that you cant talk, so in effect you have to open them with your body language, so be aware of that. Also, better groomed guys will have it a bit easier on the dance floor.

Important thing to keep in mind is to watch for approach invitations on the dance floor. The dance floor is all about having fun, so if you're having a great time and smiling then you'll have a lot of attention coming your way.

There's many many ways you could open... You could make eye contact and just walk up, you could do the spin thing mentioned above (I love doing that btw) or if you're already dancing and there's a group behind you, simply turn around and dance with them.

I just flash a smile and mouth "Hi" when I start dancing with them. If I make eye contact I'll keep it until I'm dancing with her, or if she's further away, I'll give her a smile and a playful "oh really?" type of look, followed by a wink. This cements you in her memory, so you can just open her later on if you see her again and she'll be much more receptive.

After opening and starting to dance, I'll turn to a girl on my side and make a comment, normally something situational... Point out a guy who's making an ass of himself or a girl who looks uncomfortable, maybe some light teasing... I also seem to tend to say "This song is about me!" when I've drunk too much. So you can get away with a lot of things on the dance floor because they'll assume they heard wrong. Don't peck, don't repeat yourself. If she's insisting that you repeat yourself, motion for her to come closer to you. Hoop for hoop.

After occasional commenting, teasing, C&F, a fair bit of kino and if the vibe is right, I'll show her my empty drink, point to the bar and motion for her to join me. She'll assume that she's getting a drink, and if you've built enough attraction dancing etc then she wont even think twice about it. There's your isolation routine. You're now alone with her at the bar.

That is way to complicated for me.

Really, if you got enough confidence just walk up, grab their hand, and start dancing.
If you want to isolate you pull them close and say: I need some fresh air, join me.

- Exerio

Wow, this is helping a lot. Alright, how about opening doing some stupid dance move like "the dice" just to mess around? Is it cool to act jokingly like that when dancing/ opening?