Just a quick check. When it comes to phone communication, whats the best way to play it. I mean, I'm not gonna be chasing chicks with txt messages I know that, but when it comes to phone calls, is it best for the pua to initiate the calls?

Also, and more specifically. If upon calling up a feem, and isnt exactly free enough to talk, if they say they will call you back, is it best to tell them that instead, you[the pua] shall call back another time? so that way it doesnt make you too available to them, etc.


[this is on context of a recent ex, who fell out of love with me etc, but ive basically turned my heartbreak n shit around, in her eyes it would seem anyway, and think ive done a whole load of DHV. I gamed her a little the other day too.]



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need to mention, she phoned yesterday whilst i was at a bar, i took the call to get away from depressing convo. but i told her i had to go, and that i would call back later or tomorow. She had stuff she wanted to say, but i stuck to it and said i have to go. etc.]

If she tells you she'll call you back, let her call you back. You'll find out whether or not she is interested. Also, if your too quick to say, "no, I'll call you back," your communicating desperation and neediness, which is not attractive. To help with this, maintain the idea that there is an abundance of women and constantly be getting numbers. The psychological effect this has on all parties involved is that it increases your value and self worth. So what if she doesn't call you back? Call up one of the other numbers you got this week.

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shame, called about 10pm, she never answered. So now I just have to wait until she gets in contact again.
If you're free to chat anytime they contact you though, doesnt that work against you in that you are appearing too available to them?

The situation here is slightly different to general ones, as this is a recent ex, and Im trying to game her back. Which seems to be working as she is already telling me how she really wants me to come down and see her, [shes moved away(train distance)]

Im just wondering how to handle the phone contact.

Well, I guess I keep myself pretty involved socially and pretty busy otherwise, so I'm never "free" to chat. I make time to chat and I let her know that too by telling her, "I gotta run beautiful. I hope to see you______". If your busy, be busy. If your too busy, just let it go to voice mail.

On an unrelated topic, why are you trying to re-open your ex? Shouldn't you be looking for someone new and interesting that will provide you with what your ex-couldn't?

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1) Cos every chick is a potential.
2) For some reason I want the attraction back, just to build my value n shit with her again. So she can see who the better of us is, or whatever.
3) Im not spending all my efforts just trying to game an ex, I'm gaming all, any, and every feem. Multitasking.

The only reason Im asking about this, is cos the situation is slightly different to gaming a chick you just met, as the love/attraction was there, then it got lost. I wanna get it back, is a fun game, especially when I see progress.

~Blend

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