I’ve been friends with this girl for the past 3 years. I always really liked her but never told her. And as every other one of these stories goes I ended up in the friend zone. It’s not that she didn’t like me; it’s just that I never gave her any reason to think I wanted to be anything other than friends, which is why most guys get put in the friend zone. Just recently I have been one of the rare few who have broken out of the friend zone. I’ve been seeing her about once every week or two and we have been hooking up and really getting along. Now here comes my second problem. I’m pretty sure she has a boyfriend, even though she has never mentioned him to me. I saw some stuff on her myspace about him. I really like this girl and want to get a little more serious with her, but I don’t know if I should bring up the boyfriend. The fact that she’s not bringing him up means to me that she doesn’t feel guilty and that she likes me enough to not want me to know. I just feel like the reason I don’t get to see her more often is the boyfriend even though she always gives me other excuses.

I’m seeing her again Thursday, so here is my question. Should I bring up the boyfriend? Should I tell her I want to get more serious? Should I be angry about her not telling me? Is there anything you guys do to break up a girl with her boyfriend?

I thought I was done with the hardest part when I broke out of the friend zone, but now I have this shit to deal with. Any help or input you guys could give me would be greatly appreciated