Hey, so I just met this girl at a party downtown from my college campus. I first saw her when she was playing against me as an opponent of cornholes, and she hit me a few times in the leg while I was playing. So I opened with something like:

Me: Hey, thanks for hitting me before. You intentionally hit me, right? I can tell, you nailed my leg. Look at the bruises!

HB9: haha, no...blaah blah.

Anyway, that's how I started off and we hit it off pretty well. We played a game of pong and afterwards exchanged #s.

Now here's where Im having trouble. I txt'd her.

Me (opener): hey...do me a favor and txt me right back. Just hi or something...My friends dont believe retards can txt. We'll show em lil buddy.

Her:hahahaha, oh my god badddd weekend....And MEAN txt last night lol i was like who is this!

Me: hey it's all about the first impressions....you just kind of rubbed off on me as a ... y'know. Now that you got my number, remember, youre only allowed one call per day. What happened to you yesterday anyway?

Her: hahaha well thanks for that....was I a complete tard yesterday haha?

Me: eh, Ive seen worse. But I mean you know what I found refreshing about you yesterday? You have a great outlook and that's not easy to comeby. but yeah, you were kind of all over the place....even spoke some weird language to me too.

Her: hahaha hey! I appreciate that! Lol I was having fun for sure...so what if that comes off as a medio-tard


So...Im at this point now, what to say back? I really want to nail it with this girl...there's a party on Saturday...suggestions to keep the attraction?

Is she going to that party? Otherwise do the obvious thing and invite her.

yes, i already have invited her...i said something along the lines of my weekend beating up hers and implied she really didnt have a choice. So she said "this saturday sounds great "

How do you guys think Im doing? Am I neggin' properly, too much, too little, or whatever? Hows my progress?

this sounds like its goin very well you have negged well and kept it interesting mate good job! tell us how it goes

anyway, so I got her to say this finally after saying:

Me: You should come chill with me this Saturday. Afterall, my weekend would totally beat up yours.

Her: Hahaha oh that's refreshing to hear...(in response to an early txt I sent her saying she had 2 of the 3 qualities that are sought after in the opposite sex). Yea saturday sounds good let me know

Me: ight sounds like we got a plan. There's blah blah on Saturday. Ill hit you up later this week.

Thoughts? Should I txt her still or just wait till I call her later. And when should I call? Will she lose interest? Does she seem interested?

I dont know how much comfort you have built with her. But personally speaking, from the feeling I get, I think you might have negged her a bit too much. Although it seems like youare going well, just turn down the negging a notch and youll be on your way.

cheers

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what should I do to build comfort? Any links you can provide me with to dive into this area before doing it in the field?

Also, should I call/txt her or just wait until it gets pretty close to Saturday? Thanks for the help!