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PostPosted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 4:53 pm 
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Can't see anything in my inbox so appears not. Just send me your address and I'll add you. :wink:

However I must stress I don't want to be seen as any sort of guru, I'm new to this myself and I'm still learning and the idea of me having the burden of occaisionally giving impractical advice is not something I want on my shoulders.

I've had the problem of 'I'll do it later' too. I remember in my first year at uni seeing a girl that really blew me away, her dress sense, her looks, she was artistic, tall brunette, just about what I like, but I never spoke to her. Its annoying though as first time I saw her I was going to, it was in the art department at my uni and she walked past and I got up to try and look for her. Sadly one of my tutors pulled me away before I could do anything and after that I saw her several times, sometimes even wondering if she was checking me out, but the spark of courage had fizzled out.

Anyway how have I been attempting to get over it? Well small steps I guess. One of the first things you can try is walking down the street with the Alpha Male stance (namely shoulders back, head held high and looking straight ahead). When you see an attractive girl, look in her eyes and she should spot you (she won't look back 100% of the time though). As she walks past, give her a smile while looking in her eyes and she should smile back (again won't always happen but if it doesn't then don't worry). Even if you give a shy smile at first I wouldn't worry, eventually it'll become easier and you can give a more broad grin. She should be reflective and give one back. You don't have to approach BUT this sort of thing can be an ice breaker before you do as she's reacting positively. Just don't stare at her like a psycho, for goodness sake!!! :P

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:15 pm 
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cool dude no worries...

ALSO NOTIFICATION TO EVERYONE NEVER USE THE CUBE OPENER ON PEOPLE YOU KNOW SOME GIRLS THINK I'M FUCKING WEIRD AND I'M TRYING TO GET INTO THEIR BRAINS!!! I CANNOT EMPHASIZE THIS ENOUGH

yeah it fucking sucks... so now im basically back to square 1 with V... any ideas to restart, reset and re-figure so im not that creepy kid again?


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:23 pm 
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What the fuck is the cube opener!?


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its a nlp opener thought i would try it, turns out it just sounds a bit weird and creepy... still any ideas on how to retry (im really going for the alliteration side of things lol)


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Meh, sod that. I tried looking it up but honestly I really don't like pre-programmed routines. They're great sometimes as a starting point but frankly I'm more interested in using my wits rather than pre-programmed material.

Main reason is I feel kind of false doing it. There are some good small things to do like increading kino, high fives, making them laugh etc. But I understand people using it when they're starting out... :wink:


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hey guys, im new to this site but have been around in other sites before!
just thought id introduce myself and jyst try and help or be helped as much as possible
thanks
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its a nlp opener thought i would try it, turns out it just sounds a bit weird and creepy... still any ideas on how to retry (im really going for the alliteration side of things lol)
Hey arrogance, it happen sometimes that girls can get wierded out by some NLP stuff, I would guess being quite young aswell it may be a bit intimidating for a young girl. But hey keep going dude! So what does the cube opener consist of?
.R.


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yeah reeda cool that would be awesome, so basically what were discussing now is the dilema of running out of material or more importantly late game problems and how to restart... we... well i am looking at the school sort of pickup along with building up a relationship to turn into a girlfriend situation you get me, so any tips at all are greatly appreciated


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I think learning how to build rapport is far more useful skill than conversarion 'material', but we all have to start somewhere.


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SO basically now she seems to be generally fine with me again (not as good as before but, as good as its gonna get). now i just seem to think about thinks to much and Stutter WTF what is happening to me!!! suddenly things have gone so wrong!

i just run out of casual things to say, what are sutff you guys talk about with girls, like everyday things stuff i can ask anyone anyone pretty much every week or so, you get me, OR stuff like DHV's any stuff would be helpfull guys thanks...


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also on a new note i got some KINO yesterday i forgot to mention from quite a fit girl, lol wasnt even trying


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wow... this post has sort of died although in my time away from the computer i used the HMV pickup line and hey... what did i get? a number? dont think il call it but it was ar eally nice confidence boost all the thinking and hard work does pay off after all lol


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wow... this post has sort of died although in my time away from the computer i used the HMV pickup line and hey... what did i get? a number? dont think il call it but it was ar eally nice confidence boost all the thinking and hard work does pay off after all lol
Ah did it work? :wink:


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haha yeah man it did work just about well unfortunately ive still got problems with entrances and and keeping conversations alive lol any ideas guys?


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