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Sleeping with girls aren't on my mind . . .
With all due respect...are you a male? If you are, you are programmed to have sex on the mind my friend. It's the reason us humans are not yet extinct. Besides why wouldn't you want to have this on the mind, its fun, its healthy, its human (and Im not saying go and bang anything and everything with a pulse, as many guys do).
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From there, you move to doing this naturally and after two minutes of hooking her into your conversation this is where you should just, as you say, be yourself.
DocWindigo, I agree with alot of what you have to say....however...its not about the first 1 or 2 minutes being in 'PUA mode' and then thereafter being yourself, its about being yourself from the word go. The key is to DEVELOP yourself into that person that naturally attracts women while being yourself. This occurs after using these techniques so often that they eventually (after some time) become embedded into you. They become part of your core belief system, you do it without thinking, its called unconscious competence. This way you will come across as congruent in your behavior/actions and these techniques will not be external 'techniques' anymore, they will be the real you.
It's the same as success in business, you need to develop yourself into a person that is worthy of success and hence naturally attracts it. This takes time...and once again it is down to retraining your current belief system, which ultimately effects your actions/behavior, which determines your results. Anyone can do this.
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If she is still standing there . . . she likes you.
I wish this was the case! Girls stick around chatting to you for a number of reasons....some just want attention,some are just being polite and dont want to be mean by dropping you immediately, some just see you as a nice guy to chat to but dont see you as a potential sexual partner. Believe me if a girl is still standing there it does NOT mean she automatically likes you. Yes it COULD be an IOI if she remains talking to you for an extended period of time...but its not guaranteed, at all. This is why one learns how to detect a range of IOI's to give us a better idea as to whether she is sexually interested or not.
You're mindset sucks. Next.
CHAT
