This may sound gay, but it isnt.

Why you should make good first impression to other male? You might want to get invited to parties, social value and soooo oooonnn.

Now, I wanna ask you, the Masters of Social Skills, how do you make good first impression to other male?

You cant be too cocky, they dont want guy like that. You cant be too wussy, they dont want to spend time with uncool guy like that.

What you exactly need to be when interacting with unknown/"know somehow" males, if you want to become their friend fast. (Create rapport)

I've posted on this before. I roll solo, & probably meet twice as many guys as girls in the club every weekend. I need social proof and it helps me get rolling. I'm just real friendly to them & everyone & meet everyone, cool people, fatties, nerds, everyone, but always in an unreactive & unneady way. Just being a cool guy giving value having fun. If anyone watches me they see me standing there and these guys reacting to me because I've learned a thing or two about body language.

I might originally say something like "what's up bro. Man there are some hot chicks in here." just looking around like im having a blast scanning so I make it clear im not gay. Shoot the shit a minute say something like i'm going to talk to that girl, if you need a wing hit me up" and move on. They see me talking to the chick so they know Im not gay, just a cool dude, who might help them get a chick at some point. Instant value.

I'm sure some think im gay or have a smart as comment from time to time but I could give a shit & the advantages far outweights. One bar I frequent I walk in like last week couple hundred people I probably knew like 40% of the people in there just from little 1-2 mintue conversations. I walk in along they slap me high 5's or fist bumps come over and talk to me and react to me, I wing a couple. It makes me look like a rock star. I've litterly heard people ask others who is that guy. or this guys the shit. Women notice in a big way. Lead the men get the women, lot of women get these guys to introduce them to me. I basically lord the club.

If they only knew a year ago I stood in the corner and talk to my one chode buddy. I just believe I'm the rock star of the bar, talk to people like I am but in a way that I am interested in them giving them value, and basically I become the club celebrity. Only bad problem is I get numbers or pulls and guys give me thumbs up or want to high 5 me. Cool, but not cool.

So be friendly to them and they will be friendly to you. Newtons 3. law.

Good points PUADave. Play it cool, you wannna game the whole f***in room. Than you have your choice of all the beautiful ladies around.

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Good points PUADave. Play it cool, you wannna game the whole f***in room. Than you have your choice of all the beautiful ladies around.

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The snow leopard.

Good points PUADave. Play it cool, you wannna game the whole f***in room. Than you have your choice of all the beautiful ladies around.

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The snow leopard.

what PUAdave says is good, use it! I just have a few points to add. I read a really funny book once, called Reaper Man, it has nothinh to do with pick up, it is just a funny novel, anyway, I came to think about a line from that book that I remember.
"Be nice to everyone and be bad enough at all skill tests and everyone will like you" The point I wanted to make from this is that if you outshine other guys in everything you will intimidate them, noone likes a bragger and noone likes to feel inferior.
Just be cool with them and it shouldn't be a problem.

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I think it's unnatural if you TRY not to outshine the guys? I'm not talking about you purposely lower their value in front of everyone, but if you simply know more about something, are more interesting, have better jokes, out alpha them with the girls, then I would think that's just being whomever you are (inner game). But......you are right in the sense that guys don't want anyone around that's better than them and establishes dominance whenever you enter the situation. The procedure that then happens is....they stop bringing the girls around, and go to their dorm rooms instead.

I have a GF or else i'd number close and escalate on my own, but clearly that would look shady. So my only way to talk to these girls were when they used to be in my sweetmates room, now the guys want to isolate them, very strange imo.

But anyway, i would think our goal is to natural, and if we are the alpha male, why try and tuck tail ?

Be the person you'd like to hang around with.

I watched the Jeffy Show last week. One interesting part to me was talking about how he goes into mixed sets with guys and girls in it and how he loves for the guys to hang around because he knows he will outshine them and it will only make him more attractive.

He said from field tested data that 80% of the time you see mixed sets it's not the boyfriend & that most guys never approach them. That info comin from RSD no doubt in my mind they probably kept records. So don't let those mixed sets go.

I've lived in several different cities in the last several years and had to start up a social life from scratch at every post. Anyhow, it's not too different from gaming chicks. The most important thing is "DEMONSTRATE . . . don't tell. . . "

First, it's always nice to be a "jack of all trades". If a couple of guys bring up golf . . . sure you can fill in for a fourth. If the guys are off-roading on 250's . . .yeah, I've got my boots and helmet. It's nice to be able to smoothly add to any conversation or event and just do it because you enjoy it. If all you do is sit at home and twiddle your thumbs on your xbox, well I suppose you can join an xbox group . . . but you'd be limited to that "group" only . . .

Anyway . . . here's what's worked for me everywhere I went: I open, open, open . . .

Closing is personal. It's you, a girl and then I suppose the kids these days like to "kiss and tell" about it the next day. Fun . . . but where's the camaraderie?

When ever I go to a new city, I open, open, open. One time, a guy I met in a wedding took me out to a club with his buddies. He had gorgeous girls on his table already. I walk in and he goes, "That girl over there is soooo hot," pointing to another table

Then I go, "Which one? Oh yeah . . . OK, give me 10 minutes."

Not sure about the time but a little later on, the girl is sitting at our table. I didn't TELL him that I game girls . . . that I rock with girls . . .that I can fuck anybody I want to at the club. All I did was OPEN . . . and he simply assumed all these things . . . and he assumed that if he hung out with me, he'd be a part of the party. That was 2 cities ago . . . we still keep in touch.

Wow, thanks PUAdave, that's seriously inspirational haha

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