Am I the only person out there who ends up moving to quick once you're ready to move from the "dating phase" to "boyfriend/girlfriend phase"? (by this i mean going from two people hanging out and hooking up to being a couple?)

I end up moving things way too quickly once I'm ready to transition and I suppose it could be classified as ONE-ITIS but im not sold on that idea. Any thoughts?

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-dw3llz

Yeah, that used to happen to me a lot in my AFC days. I was great at day 2s (still am) but then I would smother her and any attraction/desire she had woth too much attention. That left me very confused. Why woudn't she want my attention at that point?

Since I've read some PUA stuff, I changed my attitude. I'm more in the mindset of: "I don't want to commit because I just found out all the good stuff and want to see what girls I can get and want to practice at it more" mentality. Needless to say I don't move in too quickly anymore. Needless to say girls are more into me beyond day 2 because of it.

Ironic isn't it?

basic principles:
you just found out HER good qualities, let's see what others have to offer? (if im understanding correctly)

i can totally see that being the right mindset.


OH, wat stuff did u read, cuz i would like to stop ending most of my relationships after the second date...

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-dw3llz

More or less, but I think it ties in together. I was thining more of my skills to attract women as the 'good stuff'.

It's like learning a new sport. If you learn hockey, will you quit after scoring your first goal? You wont most likely. You will want to play more and improve and get even better. I have more that attitude with women now.

Heck, I'm all for finding a solid LTR, but I'm a lot more demanding when it comes to that. If every women you meet falls into the LTR category, you just need to elevate your standards and go out more. Which comes around to your understanding of 'I saw what she has to offer, let's check the other one'. By doing that, you will keep that one interested in you becuase you don't turn into a needy overly affectionate guy. That's not who she was attracted to start with.

What I read? Most of DavidD's material, MM, some NLP, The Game... the list goes on!

That stuff is pretty common while learning the game. You need to learn how to hold off. Your satisfied that you have a new peice of ass so you invest most your attention to that chik because u feel she took some work so you wana reap the fruits of your labor. Thats fine but You need to find another one just like that and fuk both of them. My game at the state ur in, is i tell chiks that im seeing other girls and im just looking to see wich one stands out to me. this helps you hold off and you build the suspense for the girl. Make sure (once u know she likes you)you let her know that you wont date a girl until u sleep with her this way she dosent hold bak on sex to try to prove shes the one because now u made sex a qualification. bro, you can do this over and over and have about 4 girls that u can fuk when ever you want for the next 3 years or in one case of mine 5 years! (never made her my girl).

They will try to hit u with
-We cant keep messing around because ur not my bf
-my friends ask me what are you to me and i dont know what to tell them
-ur an asshole, player, jerk who just uses me
-your no good for me or you hurt me

heres what u say:
-Im not ur bf bkuz i dont want u to turn out like my ex i want something different with you
-baby you can tell them im whatever u want..whats important is us not them
-if im such an ass why do i make u smile and why do u enjoy my company
-I might accidentaly hurt u because im learning as i go with u and girls are more emotional than guys...im sorry for being a stupid boy

if they repeat a question:
look into her eyes and tell her ur so pretty
and then say: we r supposed to be having fun when we r together lets change the subject

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when she says im a "dog" i know im in

triibal ur lines are fucking EPIC. when reading the female questions im like wow this is shallow!, then hearing ur answers im like fuck that, its perfect!

all sounds good but idk about the fucking scenario seeing as i'm a senior in high school. but we'll go for it

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there's a transition between the two?

for me it just happens.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

dwellz... ur in freaking senior year in high school! im 22 theres not a crazy difference in age. If i knew this shit when i was ur age id b more powerful then the the mayan god of sex lol

trust me

but dont be too much of a dick be smooth, fresh (the fresh that makes girls say omg dont say that gigglegiggle), confident and a little shot out but still show ur nice side.

for example; i keep the sarcasm,cockyness,negs, but i also mix it with compliments and tell her things like "i dont know why but i like hanging out with you " and some where along the convo ill start talking about the high school wrestling team i help coach, and talk about the kids and things i do that she might think are sweet or cute (this shows that i have a good heart even tho im a bad boy)...then ill quickly say something like: are u sure u like me? im a promoter who is surrounded around girls all the time...gettin into all kinds of trouble i dont think you know what your gettin ur self into" this way she thinks im coverin up the fact im a nice guy.....this is how girls fall in love with u

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..-~`Triibal'~-..
when she says im a "dog" i know im in

triibal, i didnt even tell u im too much of a dick yet. get outta my head!

but ya i've just recently started mixing things up between sweetheart and rockstar.

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