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| shaneo21 | PostPosted: Mon Sep 07, 2009 7:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:44 pm Posts: 66 AOL: supersupratt94 Location: new jersey | | i've been studying pick up for about a year now. i've read "the game" and learned the routines. I had no problem picking up HBs in the past and for a minute i actually had HBs approaching me when i went out. I'm always doin sumthin crazy and spontaneous. but, i don't know what happened to me. because lately i can't approach HBs or hold convos with them for the life of me. I can't even hold fun and interesting convos with my friends anymore. For a while i din't even bother talking to girls because i just wanted to have fun wit my friends. I don't know if that hurt my game or not. because since then i have had an extremely difficult time talking to girls. I don't get it! i coach all my wings on how the approach and improve their game all the time. I just can't get my shit toghether. college is in and there's a ton of HBs in da clubs now and i feel like i'm losing out on this oppurtunity
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| Chillburg | PostPosted: Mon Sep 07, 2009 9:57 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:23 pm Posts: 640 Location: ze land of tulips | | post a sort of field report from the last girls you've approached, we cant tell you what you're doing wrong unless we get some details mate
also dont let this affect your inner game
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| shaneo21 | PostPosted: Mon Sep 07, 2009 10:14 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:44 pm Posts: 66 AOL: supersupratt94 Location: new jersey | | well, my last attempt at picking up a hb wuz last nite. It was at a college frat party. college just started so no one reallys knows anyone. i saw to girls standin by themsleves at the bar. I walked over and said "hey guys, do me a favor and smile. it looks like yur not having fun". they both looked at me and smilied. I said "thats more like it" and introduced myself to them. I asked them if they wanted to play a game of beer pong with me and they agreed. we went upstairs and engauged in small talk. such as..where u from, wut are you majoring in, etc...turns out all the beer pong tables were taken. when i was trying to figure out who had next game. they 2 girls said they'd be back in a lil bit. i knew they weren't comin back tho so i found my friends abd just bull shit'd wit them da rest of the nite
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| Chillburg | PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 4:26 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:23 pm Posts: 640 Location: ze land of tulips | | it's still really unclear mate.
Did you kino (escalate)?
Did you neg?
Did you keep your targets friend busy as well?
anyway, if you've been studying for a year you should know your shit so it can be just so that it is a missed set because of THEM, not that you did anything wrong...just analyze everything you did to the fullest, if you can still remember!
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| Agent Whore 32 | PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 4:57 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Aug 28, 2008 10:52 am Posts: 172 AOL: Lceberg032 Location: The Bronx, New York | | well ive read there is a pattern, we all start off great, lots of energy and after a while we fall into a slump where its just harder to get thing down, the only choice you have is to plow through it for a few weeks and you'll be right on track, trust me, im at a slump right now where i dont want to approach and once i get into the mood and i start approaching a lot of women but game seems off, i just have to plow through it and keep trying to last longer and get it right, i think this part will greatly help in calibration _________________ Set a goal in life, then pass it.
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