hey dudes

ive just got bak home from a night out, k closes and # closed a HB 7
HOWEVER

during the night out as we wer kissin, some dude comes up to us and decides to pick a fight with me, big dude he was and looked like he was on pills. turns out hes this gals ex bf....greeeaat i thought haha he kept trying to convince me to come out of the club with me so he could fight me, i stuck to what i knew, asked his name n all tht but all he was saying is "it doesnt matter what my name is" ect

lukily i figured this guy is alot bigger than me, hes pilled up and unreasonable. ill get my ass in a cab n go home...i did so (close call btw)

my question is this....when we do what we do, odds are some of you guys have run into some psychos, how do you deal with them non violently?

p.s
im joinin a gym and putting approx a stone of muscle on to look a lil more intimidating haha (not cuz of ths btw ive wanted to be fitter body wise for a while)

p.p.s

sorry if this is badly written, im still slightly drunk

I'm no PUA, but I'll speak from personal experiences with cockbags like that.

Be the bigger man, walk away, I believe what you did was acceptable. I commend you for it. I would've been like "pfft lulz" and told her I'd see her later.

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Well, I'm not sure how to non-violently settle it without looking like a puss so if I were you, I would've fought him (because in all honesty, size doesn't matter TOO MUCH in a fight) seeing as he's coming up to you in a violent manner and not giving up when you tried to talk your way out of it.

This is a great DHV story!

Then you my friend, would have bravely fought your way into a coma. Don't get me wrong, its a admirable more to fight the guy, but fighting isnt always the smart move.

The smart move is to get you ass out of dodge, Which you did, so well done. Sitting in your home with a girls number, a slight hang over and a funny story to tell, is 50 time better than sitting in your home with a black eye and a worse night ever story to post up, like i did about a year ago.

Oh, and if you think me a uninformed coward, know that i have learned enough ju-jitsu to break any one of any size in less than 3 seconds. Walking away is the first lesson i learned in ju-jitsu, to this day its also the best lesson ive ever had too.

lol cheers for the advice guys (for some reason i didnt get an e-mail saying i had replies :S hmm)

lukily in the club i was personal friends with the bouncers so they got the dude out, turns out he picks alot of fights for literaly no reason. i only really fight if i absolutly have too and there is no other option left. movin bak to uni this week, lookin forward to a more stress free in feild experience (guys like tht dude dont generaly get into uni lol)