the second i start caring about a girl she runs, how is it when i treat a girl like shit she wants me, calls me all the time, the more I ignore her the more desperate she becomes, when I act disinterested in anything she does, she starts buying me things, and wanting to come along with me places, and wants to do things that I actually enjoy doing.

There was this girl from work emma, I didn't think much of her, I actually looked down on her without even knowing her. She would text me, sometimes I would respond. Sometimes I would call her when I was drunk, she would tell me things like her roommates are being bitches I told her she could spend the night if she blew me and made breakfast in the morning.

One night her and her friend came over we drank, ended up breaking into a pool, still thought she was nothing more than a tease, thought i was going to fuck her friend.

her friend and i go in my room, we're about to have sex, and she says she can't, emma likes me too much. hmmm emma didn't give me hardly any interest all night how was i suppose to know she liked me.

So her friend leaves and emma comes into my room, and sits on my bed, im almost asleep at this point, I tell her I have a strict no sleepover policy, she tells me "that's fine i'll sleep on the couch" I say something "okay I feel bad you can sleep on this side of the bed" She says "all we can do is cuddle" Next thing I know I'm having the greatest sex of my life, I'm about blow my load, and she pulls away and I cum all over my bed and not in her. We then have sex 20 minutes later, 2 hours later and when I wake up.

At this point I thought wow, what a great night, and that's it. I drive her home, listening to music so I don't have to talk to her. Next day at work she ask me "when are you going to take me out"

I laugh and tell her when she can show me she's not a whore. She hit me in the face, not a slap but punched me in the face, not hard, but enough to show me that I can't just walk all over and say whatever comes to my mind.

So a few days go by she's showing a lot interest texting me, calling me and we decide to go out on night. I take her to cheap restaurant and we split an entree, and then just lay in the middle of the bike trail and watch a meteor shower and talk about our lives growing up. It was fun, I thought she really liked me.

I ask her at work a few days later how spontaneous she was feeling, I told her if she felt like a ten I'd invite her on an adventure, she told me an 8.5 out of ten. I still invited her and we went to the city. We just walked around, made her feel like we were lost and everything was spontaneous and it was. We have a few drinks wonder around the city, and drive home (don't worry sober) next thing I know she has her seat belt off, taking off her shirt and unbuttoning my pants, she blows me in the car. I tell her we should have sex, she says she wants to get home. I stimulate her a little more and she is begging me to pull over to fuck her. We again have the best sex. I've never seen a girl tell me before we go out that she has to be back at a certain time. Almost like she was gaming me.

the whole time I have a girlfriend that I told her about, and how I was mostly unhappy with her, she kept asking me why I'm still with her, and I told her "because you can't provide me with the things she provides me with"

She calls me the next day to tell me that's the hottest sex she's ever had

a few days go by, and then on her myspace it says "in a relationship" she told me she was kind of seeing some other guy, but she wasn't interested in making things official with him. I send her a text "im stalking you, and what is this I see? In a relationship! I'm a little jealous"

She writes back "lol ur funny u can't be jealous you have a girlfriend!

I text her all the reasons I like her, she says im sweet, and then i fall asleep.

At this point I've been extremely distant with my girlfriend, she's getting pissed, so I send emma a text "what would you say if I broke up with my girlfriend to pursue something more serious with you"

She says "I wish you would have talked to me first"

I say "what do you want from me"

she says "I think your great, but I want to be a good girlfriend"

I ask "then what was the past 2 weeks all about"

she says "I don't know it just happened"

I tell her "well im glad I know this before I make any more poor finical decisions. I will still smile looking back at the moments we had"

She text me "please be my friend"

I didn't respond

She wrote again "please don't be mad at me"

I didn't write her back for 3 days and I hadn't seen her at work

I turned afc and texted her "i miss you"

listed all the things i liked about her, how she made me feel great.

We tried hanging out, it sucked I tried to kiss her, she pushed me away.

I wait a couple days text her "i want to treat you like the princess you are, give me one chance"

she said "no, i'm happy with my boyfriend"

I stop there.

I see her at work and am more angry with myself than her but tell her "i don't know how i could like you, you really bring nothing to the table of interest, and I don't know why i like you"

she tells me "you'll forget about me when you find another girl"

I'm lost at what to do so I send her a text a few hours later telling her why i like her. this was my last try.

she sends me a text I was hoping/expecting this "please stop"

and at this point I just deleted her number.

What happened! Where did I go astray? Salvageable?

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Salvageable, i think not...
Things u did wrong,well u fell for her...and u fell for her fast...
Ok let's break this down, cause this thing happens even to the best of us.
Girls usualy are atracted by what we do, canned of natural, we tease, we beat them at their game, the moment we get envolved we loose evrything we build, and we uncover ourselfs in what we really are, needy, imature, not alpha, sentimental, jealous, baby like behaivior...and most women dont want that, they want security, both psihical and and emotional...they dont look for a kid, that need careing and afection, and that myfriend was exactly what u did...u shown urself as a needy, afection craving kid.
Should have played it cool, it's common mistake, patience is a virtue my friend...make her fall for u, and then u can fall for her...or even if u fall for her, dont show it, until she falls for u.
Mate the thing is that most do this mistake, it;s all about the mentalety...if u stay clear of the feelings, or any other emotions, and u treat them as a piece of meat, u have to actualy think that they are just a target...until they break their shell and u get to see what's really inside...after that u decide wether is wise to show her your true self...or not...
Keep ur chin up, forget about it, u played well in the begining, fucked it up at then end.Dont worry, analise urself and determine what u did wrong, it's better u finding out where u blumbered it, then for others to tell u...
Best of luck to you

Gevaudun hit the nail on the head. way too needy bro...you also need to understand that telling a girl (3 times!) all the reasons WHY you like her is going to do nothing for increasing the attraction she has for you, its just going to give her a big head. rather let her wonder why you like her, even better, let her wonder IF you like her at all.

Aside from the above, she doesnt sound like 'gfriend material' anyway! And be prepared to hear the phrase 'it just happened' alot. Its like women were born with this phrase in their vocab, they use it for so many bloody reasons they might as well just stare at you and not answer at all. We can luckily use it to our advantage too though....IF you were having trouble getting sex from her (which you didnt) then you could have made it seem like the sex 'just happened' (ie. not planned) and she would have given it up. This phrase is ofcourse not cool when you ask your gfriend why the f*ck she cheated on you...and she replies with...'it just happened'.

I would attempt to help if I didn't feel i had to read everything you've done since you're first steps to get to the issue.

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