i liked this girl not long ago. like 5 months ago? and i did the approach etc. but all these happened before i got into this forum or before reading " the game " etc. now, i've not completed the book even!

mistake that i did was somehow confess to that girl. she's HB9. so far i heard there's like around 10 guys are completely into her, including me. and a lot of childish mistakes happened.. now, she doesnt seems to be interested in me. last time, there's a period when she's so nice. buying me ice cream etc.. i know it sounds like it supposed to be the other way round. but it happened, and she never accept any of my gifts!

n she's in relationship now!

now, after reading these stuffs in the forum. i make use of what i learn and apply it to HER BESTFRIEND. and it works.. smoothly. now, the whole class ( i'm still in sch ) know about it.. it was killing 2 birds with one stone situation. i can get the bestfriend AND make this HB9 jealous. and last night for no reason, it was her first time msging me. i felt she's totally flirting. she asked me to watch a movie with her through youtube? i was like " wtf " and just play along. i didnt watch it though, i was busy surfing this forum . she also given me a song from my country. ( i'm indonesian, she's singaporean) and the lyrics was talking about missing the time of moments when i am in love with her, and she misses it. i play it a lil rough, i just told let's go for movie, tomorrow, this location at 3 dont be late. she's like " no " then i told her, " well, finally u r thinking. u seems to have something in mind from just now. " and after that, i just told her that i'm tired n want to sleep. i off my msn.

SO.. wad should i do next?

Clarify for me;
+Who is the target? Her or her friend?
+What do you want out of it?
+How do you think she feels?
+How do your morals stand in this situation (since she's in a relationship)?

And from what you said, attraction was building up until you 'confessed' your feelings to her, so logically, this would be the thing that you don't want to do this time around. You want to be coming off as if you always have something better to do; you should wait in replying to every text (5-10 minutes), at least a minute or two with each IM, and never ask her to do anything with you, tell her that she is (like you did).

Also, movies aren't really a great day2 idea, you want to be able to do something where you go to lots of locations in a short period of time, this way you build comfort quicker by making her feel like you've been in 10 mini dates instead of 1 long one.

Are there any other flaws in your interaction last time that you can remember/see looking back knowing what you've learned now?

yeah, target of course the HB9 isnt it? her bestfriend is totally nice to me.. she shouldn't be a problem. she IM me everyday.. LOL and bout the HB9 i dun care if she's in relationship. she told me she hates the boyfriend n wanting to break up long ago.

other than the " confession " i think i'm too givin in to her, too witty, too sensitive. and that is something i've learnt n hopefully, i dont make the same mistakes again. i've not talked to her for 2 days. well, this time round i won't talk unless she approaches me first? is that the best way?

and i heard, she's dating someone now. should i just move on?

And the question... Do you think she even CARES that you're freezing her out like some little 18 yo fresher girl? Ha ha. That works on guys who are chasing pussy.

It doesn't work on girls. Girls RESPOND to guys who live their lives like MEN. Those men have too much fun to even care whether or not this girl matters to them. They're out hanging with OTHER girls on both arms. Doing their work and whatever.
She's getting nailed by someone else. Can you deal with it in a way that it doesn't matter one FUCKING bit to you. If you can't, you SHOULD move on.

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tweeby > alright, so the best is not to avoid her. i'll do as what you've said, to live like a man in her life. i hope this works. any other recommendation?