ok u guys were the only ones i could think of telling this to cus maybe somebody could help me. Well idk why, but i have realised that everytime that i have ever told a girl i liked her or acted like i liked her

she would stop liking me i seriously dont know why, i thought if i showed her that i liked her she would love me even more but it would always prove otherwise. So for now on i decided to play hard to get.

Well I met this beatiful girl last saturday at a neighbors bbq and decided to txt her today, all week i couldnt stop thinking about her. Earlier i asked my friend to txt her too see if she liked me ( I know it sounds like pussy shit). She txted her back saying that she didnt know, that she would have to get to know me more. My friend then txted her again asking common tell me the truth. She said maybe. So i txt her (dont think i only txted her because of her responses, although if she had said no i probably

wouldnt of have txted her) So were txting then she decides to call me, so were taliking, all the time i try and act as if im not interested in her while only giving alittle bit of signs that im interested in her, like inviting her 2 my party tomorrow, and telling her she was beautiful like me after her asking me if i thought she was ugly.

Then after talking to her for aliitle bit i decided to do something i wouldn't usually do which was end the conversation early ( it wasnt that early but i still wanted 2 keep talking 2 her.) So i made up an excuse that my dad needed for me to go help him with some stuff and if it was alright if i called her tomorrow. Just her voice made me feel bad She said yeah sure but in a very disapointed sort of tone like i just got rejected sort of tone. I feel so bad i really like this girl but i want to attract her. I feel so bad, am i suppose to feel this way? This post probably sounds so gay i just feel bad idk.

1. Never tell a girl you like her (as you have noticed, the challenge is gone and this alone can kill the attraction, dead). Show her you like her by kissing her (and what ever else you want to follow after that).

2. You sound very young...it's good to start young (as long as youre 16 in my opinion). Dont get your friend to ask if she likes you. She probably knows you asked your friend to do that. Its obvious

3. What you did by ending conversation early and hearing the disappointment in her voice...perfect. you left her wanting more. there is one thing you could have done better though and that is to leave her on a laughing note. Next time make her laugh, and then say you gotta go...she'll be thinking of you afterward. (do it naturally though)

4. Feel bad for what? you needed to go help your dad. Dude youre a man. You do what you want when you want, but at the same time respect others. Youre going to need to become a bit more thick skinned if you feel bad about ending a convo early with a girl. If you didnt end that convo early she may not be into you anymore as you may have come across as needy (which is what you sound liek in your post...no offense, just being upfront with you)

All in all it seems like she likes you...dont let the fact that you LIKE her and have feelings for her screw it up...act like you dont like her. if youre thinking about her 24/7 youre going to get nervous when you next see her as youve created this massive build-up in your mind...and because youve made such a big 'thing' of it, you will fear losing it all when you next see her, which is the very thing that creates nerves in the first place. Act as if you dont care, you will come across as more confident...easier said than done i know...emotions are powerful but you need to learn how to control them.

It sounds like you have alot of reading to do on the basics of creating attraction. Get some books by Mystery, Style and the other big names in the community.

Hope this helps

Yeah I did leave her laughing, and well i havent thought about her 24/7 since i moved to a new school and kept thinking about all the hot girls there too, i just never forgot her. And I feel bad because of her voice in the end.

so is she coming to your party? where do you stand with her now? start up convo about 2-3 days after this phone call you had (the one you ended early). she will be excited to hear from you.

Alright well last night when we were talking I asked her if she was going to come to my party but she said since she lives far she would need her friend (a friend that took her to the bbq) to give her a ride. I told her that i would ask one of my friends if she could call her friend and ask her to come and go pick u up. Well today i tried calling my friend but she was sleeping. Later on i heard from alot of people that the girl i like was coming so i didnt call my friend anymore. Well the party started and she never came. She ends up txting my friend to see if somebody was going to go pick her up and asks if i had told her about going and picking her up. My friend replies with we would have gone and picked you up but magdiel never said anything. She replies with, Maybe he didnt say anything because he didnt want me to go. I read those txt msgs toward the end of the party. She also talked about this guy named jesus who she says she sort of likes but doesnt like how hes really jelous when theyre not even going out.

Idk what to do should i even pursue her anymore since she has feelings for this guy and im confused why would she send me iois, flirt with me on the phone, and sound disapointed when i hung up on her if she says she likes this guy. Im thinking about just leaving this one since she does live kinda far but idk cus im sure ill see her in future parties. What do u guys think i should do?