If a girl is laying in my bed is she okay with me kissing her? (2nd time we hung out and first time she had a boyfriend)

my date followed my room mate around while we were grocery shopping (roommate and his date, my date and myself). his girl was stuck with me while he devoted his attention to my date.

how do i get the attention away from him and on to me without looking needy?

There are two simple questions you need to ask yourself:

1. What was he doing that was so interesting/attractive to your date?
2. What were you doing that made your date bored/gravitate toward him.?

Once you post these two things, I can help more.

to the first question, i dont know. he is not as smart or as socially quick. the only thing i noticed while we were shopping was everytime he spoke to her, he got very close and didnt break eye contact. to be honest he's a good looking guy, but that and staring at girls while he's talking to them is about the only difference i can see.

to the second question. we were tail gating all day long and everything was good. but when we got into winn dixie she just took off and followed him around. im not chasing girls when they act like that, so i just walked around with his date and chatted.

how do i negate his bullshit? he also is friends with her on facebook. how do i keep him away from her?

So I take it you and your date arent seeing anyone exclusively? (please correct me if I'm wrong) If you two are to the point where you consider her your girlfriend, your friend needs to respect you and back off.

Anyways, it sounds like you need to do two things to prevent her from gravitating toward him:
1. Isolate: Pretty much self explanatory. If its just you two, he's a non-issue. In this case a simple, "Hey, come help me find/pick out *random grocery item*" would have worked. You have to do it before he sinks his hook though, or else it looks needy.

2. Kino: If all your friend is doing is looking and talking, kino on your part should put him out of the equation. Who is she more likely to be interested in. The guy who just talks (comes off as a friend to her) or the guy who lets his intentions be known and builds physical attraction? Physical attraction is infinitely superior to conversation.

Hope this helps.

helped greatly. seems kinda obvious now. what if im forced to be with her while he's around? do i just keep pulling her away from any situation where he's present?

Ideally, you shouldnt have to worry at all when he's around her. Hopefully, you can get her to a point where she's interested in you exclusively before the next time you're all together. If you arent to that point the next time you all are together, kino with her in front of him so they will both figure out what your intentions are. If you deem it neccessary, you might want to just kind of mention your interest in her (just in a subtle way) when its just you and him. If he respects you, he'll probably get the point and leve her alone.

My best advice is to not even give him a chance. Just follow the normal routine you use with any HB and she wont have time to become interested with him. Hopefully, since she was your date in the first place, you talk to her more than he does anyways. Take advantage of it and game her.

Dont avoid situations where you're all together though, because if she is even slightly interested in him, your jealousy will show and it will backfire on you.

great advice...thanks