Alright now I've gotten a lot of numbers, and been gaming a lot of chicks, but I cant seem to get that second hangout/date. There was this one chick I told her we are going to hand out and shes like sounds good. So then when the day comes i text her to meet at this one place. Like 4 hours later she says that she got her phone taken away and was wanted to reschedule, now the next day I was like so you still want to hang out, then shes like I cant I'm grounded, so i was like okay then, its alright. But now idk what to do, I think I'm just going to drop this one. Im not sure if she really does want to hang out or if shes just playing me. But I mean I'm trying also to get other girls to hang out, but idk its not working. Are there any pointers on how to get this second date/hang out to happen without sounding to needy? I mean this is really pissing me off, I want to get a damn kiss close again lol.

first off, LOL at the name

then again, I'm one to talk since i'm 'motorcyclefag' in the boxxy realm.

anyway, no reason not to try again with her, but in the future, when getting the number, instead of simply number closing, start timebridging, since it generally forces her to give you her number (and makes it entirely appropriate for you to ask) AND dramatically increases the chance of a day 2.

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Whats timebridging? lol

What the FUCK is all this about?

All you NEED to do is demonstrate some fucking balls before you get her number and she will come RUNNING to you. She won't flake.

In short, you are probably getting her number then running off with a joyous big smile on your face. Fuck that. Push her all the way as much as you can.


Next time when you text, and she texts back. Ring her. IMMEDIATELY. Corner her, ask her why she can't hang out. 'Oh what you're powdering your nose, or watering your house plants? Let's GO 'here' and we'll have a blast, up to you?'

Poorly behaved puppy dogs = girls.

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instead of

"can i get your number?"

say

"omg, i know this awesome sushi place we should totally go to!!!"

this makes her think about actually spending time with you away from the current scenario making it more likely she'll follow through.

it also leads naturally into getting her number without having to ask for it.

regardless of whether you guys end up going to the event stated (in my example: sushi) it still reduces the flake chance.

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I see, well I really didnt use the pua method to pick her up, I mean I knew and opener and thats what I did than we started talking and I got her number. So I rly dont remember if I did DHV. I mean it was kinda a fail pick up. Ill just wait and see whats up later, I still got like 5 other chicks to game anyways =P

Do you really think being a dickhead towards this guy is being helpful?