So, i've started dating alot since i came here, and some girls are just not what they seemed to me when i saw them / spoke them , the first time, you know , when you get to know them better ...
but they always expect so much, they always wants relationships n stuff.
how can i reject girls in a subtle way ? i really have no idea how to do it :s

if they want a relationship you can try the line sorry but i dont want a relationship they'll be hurt o well......basically your asking how do i beat around the bush and hint i dont want to date (subtle) id just tell them direct i dont want to date their heart will be broke o well thats life least they know .... would you like it if a chick gave you subtle hints about not wanting to date you?

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How You Approach Is A Matter Of How You Feel "mPUA Savior"

You Live What You've Learned

I totally agree with mPUA Savior. There is no "subtle" way or "line" you can use to get around this situation.

The best thing you can do in a situation like this is just be yourself, and if right now in your life you just need to date and bang around with a few girls make sure the girls now that.

I have told many girls in the past that I WOULD NOT be their boyfriend and that I was just in this for the sex and the "good times". Now this approach has its pros and cons. But every approach to this situation will just like mPUA Savior said they may be heart broken at the time but its better than leading them on and smashing their heart when you two get really involved.

But the pros to this situation are pretty good. If you are straight forward you will be surprised at how many girls will agree with you and want the same thing. This just means that you will have a couple fuck buddies that you can get drunk with and stuff and just have sex with them. Just make sure you do not cross into the "relationship" zone and go out to dinner or you can kiss the fuck buddy thing goodbye. Then she will be attached.

I speak from personal experiences if anyone feels differently let me know.

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If you are not looking for anything serious then this needs to be said from the very beginning. There is no "subtle" way to do this. Dont wait until she wants a relationship to let her know. She'll appreciate it in the long run because it lets her determine if that's what SHE wants and if she wants to invest.

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"To Give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift" -Prefontaine

Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

When I get to know a new woman, I instantly tell them that I'm not the boyfriend material... I've always enojoyed talking about eachothers experiences and I always put in stuff like "That's why relationships sickens me".

Just have that frame in mind, frankly.. I don't care what they want, it's not really my problem.

Yeah there no Subtle way to tell them. you just gotta be frank and to the point with it. They way i do it is i tell them

"i'm not looking for a relationship or anything serious but if it happends that me and you click we can take it from there, i like you like a friend better *smiles*. "

sorta like leading them on but its the truth.

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Just say I like you alot you know that but I got a lot on my mind right now and I'm just not ready for a relationship. Best to be honest but in a nice way.

thx for all the replies guys helped me alot

Just say "I gotta be honset here, you're not very interesting".






Joking. Like others have said, theres no subtle way of rejecting someone. The more subtle you try to be about it, the more it ends up hurting them. The best way is to not contact them (at least for a while) and just nicely tell them you're busy if they contact you. They'll get the message and shouldnt get too offended. Basically, drop them the way they drop us.