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PostPosted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 3:15 pm 
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Alright so here is the deal. The other day a female co-worker of mines invited me out to go bowling for a small get together. Anyway when I get there one of her friends is extremely hot, I didn't expect it or plan for it at all. Regardless I just acted myself which is naturally cocky funny and played it really cool. I mean I actually didn't hit on her at all.

So today I get a text from my co-worker friend saying that the hot chick thinks I'm cute and interesting.

So of course I'm obviously thinking that she told her that in hopes that it would get to me so I can make a move. And here is the problem, I know she is interested, but how do I go about this without looking like a chump? Do I get her number from my co-worker and cold call her? Do I tell her friend that I think she is cute too and we should hang out?
She practically put the ball in my court and I've never been in this situation since I've been up on PUA.

So any help and suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks,
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you can do the small 'chump' move since the interest is already there, so get her number and call her.

and then carry on exactly as you would getting the number from her herself.

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id try to go out with them again. bring a guy friend of ur own to pawn off on your co-worker so you dont feel like a complete ass

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Krystals right get her number dont tell your co-worker to tell her that you think shes cute, if you do that you will look like a chump. Instead call her or txt her and be like hey do you remember me... then just run game on her shes already interested in you so dont even trip about it. And when she finds out that you txted or called she will get excited and happy.


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So you guys say get the number.

So I should just tell my coworker to give me her number?

Maybe its a little odd to me because I'm used to getting the number myself and the girl knows I'm calling. Never just called someone outta the blue.

I guess I should have tried to get on her while I was there. I just didn't think about it because me and another friend were being ultra competitive with the bowling.

But who knows she probably thinks I'm attractive because she's super hot and I made no play at her.


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So you guys say get the number.

So I should just tell my coworker to give me her number?

Maybe its a little odd to me because I'm used to getting the number myself and the girl knows I'm calling. Never just called someone outta the blue.

I guess I should have tried to get on her while I was there. I just didn't think about it because me and another friend were being ultra competitive with the bowling.

But who knows she probably thinks I'm attractive because she's super hot and I made no play at her.
if you don't see the Hot friend anywhere to ask for the number just get it from your co-worker. as for it and then wait a day or two chances are hot friend will hear from co-worker she dished out your number. call her, you already hung out with her and know who each other are so it's not a call outta the blue.

Like the other guy said hang out with the both of them and bring a friend or just the hot friend. just be straight up and youll be fine


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personally I wouldn't strait out ASK for her number, i'd say something like "you're friends cool and all but idk why she doesn't just call me"

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