I am a student at a college where the sport teams party at the apartments I live in. (live with 3 baseball players, I don't play)

First week of school is over and I met a Volleyball ball girl, minor attraction formed on both sides. The team went away for the weekend.

She is very out going, talks to everybody, everybody wants her but I'm going to get her, I just want a professional point of view towards this.

I am brand new to pick up, I had have minor success with girls before but I have all the tools, I just need to put it all together. I am good looking, funny, out going, confident and cocky when I have to be. I am on my way to alpha male-ism. I am not scared to try new things so any ideas throw them at me!

also I'm learning more n more to be creative, thoughtful and embrace and act in the moment.

so

How would a mPUA attack this to take it to the next level when she comes back on Monday?

Thanks Fellas, Joey

Anyone wanna help me out!!?? What else do you need to know?!!

you gave us almost zero about the dynamic between the two of you...

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I just met this girl.. She is in one of my classes. I feel like there is some attraction on both sides. Shes very smart and well spoken. We just met this week and I threw a neg at her, no compliments yet, nothing serious just normal friendly talk. She gave me an IOI by ripping a paper out of my hands to see what group I signed up for. We only know eachother for a couple days but it feels like I have known her for a while. Shes popluar, loves to talk to everyone. Hope this can help.

ok, first things first...chill down, u're getting pumped allready, and u like her to much.
Ok so what if she's good looking, and well spoken, and smart, most girls u want to pick up are like that, otherwise u wouldn't want to pick them up, right?
So what if u're good looking and smart and funny, so do all the other guys that wanna pick her up are
Chill it mate, game her, be smart, funny and cocky,u have to act like she's after u not vice-versa, i know it's a cliche, but it works, and helps u deal with u're enthusiasm.
So,u basicly know close to jack shit about this girls but u're asking dor help.
First of all, let's analise what u said, she is a volleyball player, that tells me she is independent,ambitious,and loves competition.
Well spoken, that means she reads,she is curious, and likes conversations, smart ones, preferably philosoplical ones, also tells me that she has a romantic side, and that she likes polite, well mannered guys.
She's popular, and social,and likes to stand out in a crowd.
Ok, so far so good, i bet she's either a lion, or gemmeny.In either situations u need to be alpha all the time, u need to be social, and like to have fun, also be polite, and funny, slighty arogant, and chalange her constantly to smart talks.
That's my opinion.Talk to her some more, be ureself, in the way i explained,friendly and nice, funny and cocky,etc, and come back with what happened.
Best of luck.

Thanks man, sounds perfect I appreciatte your time and I will post how this goes!

Second weekend of college..threw a party, I have three baseball players for roomates...I just found out that they r all lame and dont know how to have fun. That's fine, I took the lead but I did'nt capitilize. I tried to have great energy and have fun but I felt like I had to entertain the whole party (volleyball team and baseball players) and I had some real strong points and moments but not enough, I feel like I did'nt fulfill my potential for the night. So basically what I am seeking here is reccomendations and tips on throwing FUN parties that no one wants to go home.

ps my only adventerous tactic was that when everyone was just standing around talking and I guess enjoying themselves slightly but it was constant and stagnant so I decided to take the coffee table out of the living room (3 bed apartment) and turn it into a dance floor..it failed miserbly no one contributed..

Thanks fellassss

Dude 2 things:
1. Read "Conquer Your Campus" by Mark Redman - I started Uni last week, the book helped me A LOT undersanding School social dynamics, and how not being a creepy PUA on campus..and it has almost all the answers to your question ranging from how to smoothly open on campus to how throw awesome parties...
2. Question: why you already concentrating on one girl when it's just the first week...In my opinion you should be befriending everyone you see, so you become that popular that every guy wants to be, and have tremendous social proof to create instant attraction

V3nu

Absolutely. Funny part is I just read most of Conquer, just didn't act accordingly. and No Doubt on your second point. Thanks

hey, we are in the same shoe! how to get this "Conquer Your Campus" by Mark Redman ? is it online or something or a book by itself?

For Conquer your Campus; http://www.conqueryourcampus.com
Enjoy

that link, has error? idk.. it asked for name n email. but the next thing it says is a problem etc.. LOL

One more note...I am actually thriving in school in the day..acting like the man giving love and providing energy..just need to escalate.

EHhhh!!! Now you are acting accordingly!!! , About escalating, research about Sinn, he is really good at show how to escalate fast, like framing the girl, sexual qualification etc... Even watch him on The 21 Convention video, and you will get an idea.

and for anakindo Yes it's an ebook, and dude it's the 21st century, go online do some research and youwill find the right link

V3nu

Perfect, perfect. I live in an apartment and I had this idea of putting lil post it notes on the walls saying funny to inspirational phrases. ex: lifes a gift cherish it, poverty sucks, get in the fuckin zone! etc... any ideas of material I can put up to get the party involved or have something unique that will cause controversy or just convo or just make people think...Next weekend I'm gonna put one saying something like "whats on your mind? post it!" What you guys think?