Hey everybody I'm new to the pick up game and to be perfectly honest i can get women only when i feel that they are totally attracted to me. I want to be able to walk up to women without hesitating or wating for signs of attractions. I would be great if i could even get blown off becuz at least that would mean that i got the balls to go up to women with confidence. words of wisdom much appreciated.

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Datboykenan...damn

That's a good attitude, but the goal is not to get blown off. The goal is to be so irresistable and charming that nobody can stand to see you go.
Good luck with your Sarging, Amigo.
Cheers from Portland

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Beware the wrath of a patient man.

You have the right mindset. When it boils down to it, the game is about confidence, living in the moment, and being interesting. Most people tend to play down how interesting their day/life is, and rarely see it. I get the feeling you understand this. For me, talking to a woman and knowing what to talk about was the biggest obstacle. Then I learned that it didn't matter. It's all about confidence. I like that you don't care if you get blown out. That is probably the single biggest obstacle to overcome.

That's not a strange mindset man so you're not alone. I think you are a little afraid of getting blown off and that's why you can't just approach with confidence.
If you aren't afraid of getting blown off then what's the problem? You aren't going to see these women ever again...and if by some strange miracle you do then I doubt you'll be remembered. Women tend to remember the guy with all the confidence in the room. Not the guy who's sitting in a corner smiling and attempting to look social. Believe me I've seen those guys and I've been one of them.
When you see a beautiful woman look at her, close your eyes and tell yourself that she wants you, she needs you in her life and by talking to her I'm making her life better. Believe that. Walk up to her and tell her she's cute or run some openers and routines. Honestly it doesn't matter. Good luck man

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Fox

That's not a strange mindset man so you're not alone. I think you are a little afraid of getting blown off and that's why you can't just approach with confidence.
If you aren't afraid of getting blown off then what's the problem? You aren't going to see these women ever again...and if by some strange miracle you do then I doubt you'll be remembered. Women tend to remember the guy with all the confidence in the room. Not the guy who's sitting in a corner smiling and attempting to look social. Believe me I've seen those guys and I've been one of them.
When you see a beautiful woman look at her, close your eyes and tell yourself that she wants you, she needs you in her life and by talking to her I'm making her life better. Believe that. Walk up to her and tell her she's cute or run some openers and routines. Honestly it doesn't matter. Good luck man

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Fox