Yesterday my friends invited me to go clubbing. It was my first time along with theirs. . I didn't really want to go, but knew i had to in order to improve my game. When we got there it was pretty over whelming. The music was loud and lots of good looking people. me and all my friends were pretty much AFCs just watching the crowd. I knew i had to open at least one set so i approached this group. I was feeling really nervous because they are all really good looking. here how it went:

Me: Hey can i get your opinion on something it will take a sec

Hb9: um... oka..y

Me: do i look like a drug dealer to you? (Cajuns opener)


Hb9: no...

Me: oh the reason i'm asking is because i was at a party a few days ago and 4 different people came up to me and asked for weed and i told them i didn't have any. so they walked away pissed off.

Some guy in the group: (cuts in) whats your point

Me: do you guys ever get that people wanting something from you, but when you don't have it they get all pissed?

Hb9: su..reee...

I just left after that point felt like a dumba**

What went wrong?

also one of my friends did really well he had two girls grinding (i think thats teh word the kids use now) on him. That leads my into my second question how do i go about grinding with girls. I see a lot of guys just walk up to a girl and hold their waist then the girl just does the work.

presentation probably

but sometimes you'll run into sets that just don't want to be opened.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

good job on approaching and opening though, especially if that was your first time in a club.

Grinding is for chodes that don't get any.

So should i stick to the same routine then and work on my presentation?


Also, about the grinding I would like to try it once in my life.

Your post SCREAMS neediness and Trying for Rapport.

Me: Hey you!
Me: Why the hell are you wallflowering?
HB: Blah blah **cut her off in like 2 secs**
Me: Old creepy guys do that. I'm gonna teach you to party, you ready?! Pffffff w/e your at party 1.0 missie. This isn't the 90's anymore.


approach more then 1 set next time. You only have 1 reference experience, you need quite a few more to be good.

I make it a goal to appraoch at least 10 sets a night or get 3 sets to go into comfert or get 1 make out every time I go out.

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