So, I got this girls number last week and I invited her to a couple of parties over the weekend. She didn't show up to either of the ones I invited her to (I expected her not to, because she had friends coming in to town). I texted her on Monday, and she didnt reply. However, on Tuesday I saw her in class and she said "I'm soo sorry for not responding to your texts! blah blah blah" I told her it was cool and that "I don't trip with that kinda thing." (which is true, I dont respond to friends texts all the time, either cause I'm busy or whatever) So she said she'd text me that night. She failed to do so! So I text her today out of boredom and lack of getting a new number today.

Things were going well, so I figured I'd take a chance:

Her: "Haha ur not very good at being sneaky through texts "

Me: "Apparently not. I'll have to work on my texting ninja skills if I ever plan on seducing you!"

20 Mins goes by

Me: "Hmm, awkward silence = ninja texting fail! So, I went job hunting earlier today, and out of curiosity I went into Abercrombie (I dont even own anything from there), but the chick seemed super excited and I made friends with one of the dudes there. Is it douchey to work at Abercrombie?"

Her: " No not at all. Just make sure they pay u well. And sorry I just now got back to my phone. I was in the kitchen. Ur last text was pretty funny. And I happen to think you have awesome ninja-texting skills haha its all good."

We've continued texting, but it feels like her defense barrier went back up. She's not as playful, but still is sending smileys and shit. I think I really fucked that one up, and she's just taking pity on me!

Thoughts?

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stick your dick in her vagina



if you know what i mean

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Haha! I had to decode that one, so it took me a while. Thats crazy, cause I was thinkin the same exact thing man!

Yeah, I think I scored a mid afternoon swim session with her. But I have my first meeting with a local lair at 7:30... So probably not tomorrow, but I'll try to K-close her fo sho.

Thanks for the tip bro!

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The main mistake I think you made (and its not a big deal, remember as a PUA NOTHING is a big deal) is that you texted her twice when she didn't reply. Its just smells a little bit needy, give her a chance to reply and if she doesn't then don't send a second. Big no no. Give and take.

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You should never reveal your hands quite so easily.
The seducing comment was non-chalant and could be taken with a grain of salt, though I think she might think you're still hitting on her.

The funny thing is, this same thing is happening to me now-a-days. And the way I got the girl to come to me, and stop being space cadet with my texts is to let her know I'm not going to sit around and wait for her.
She stood me up once and I called her out on it. She mentioned that we should hang out over the weekend and I said "Oh great, I'd love to wait around on a friday night for you to not call. No thanks, I got someplace to be." She felt bad and apologized...over and over. She said "I promise this weekend I wont forget or fall asleep." I told her "We'll see..." and now she calls me twice a day to see what I'm doing and make sure we're still on for this weekend.
I think that might have to be something you'll have to do. Let her know she's really at the bottom of your list, and that you have many other things to do. Make it apparent she's replaceable. Also try not to commit to any plans, because of your big "responsibilities" this weekend.
And it's also a good idea not to always be the one to text her. If she wants to talk to you, she'll call.
Good luck

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