Dealing with someone who overshadows you.....



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 31, 2009 10:18 pm 
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I'm by far no master PUA but I am very capable of meeting girls. However, lately I have been hanging out with a friend who dominates the conversation whenever we are out. He is so outgoing and always the life of the party. He's a great PUA but whenever I'm out with him, I find it hard to compete and usually wind up feeling less confident. I know I shouldn't be competing but it's hard for me to get into the right state of mind. When out with other friends who are less loud, I usually have success. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 02, 2009 5:27 pm 
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Sounds like your getting AMOG'd. If your good friends with the guy, try making a few small jokes at his expense when he either says something stupid or doesn't shut up, just make sure you dont alienate him or hurt his chances. Otherwise, use it as a chance to isolate. Tell the girl your interested in you want to chat, but you should go over there so that you can escape your friend.

Just make sure to assert yourself and be confident show that your an alpha too.

Remember, self-confidence. You are the Prize!!

Best of luck


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 02, 2009 6:13 pm 
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If he is a PUA he needs to get back to basics and read up on wing rules.


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