| There is a lot of information out there. There are numerous gurus. The methods are sooooo complicated and sooo many. Some even contradict each other. These were some of the thoughts I had when I first started.
I would like to share my thoughts concerning limiting yourself to a belief, following a path, mastering the rules.
It all sucks! Read and weep!
Everybody has to start somewhere, agreed! Everyone tries one thing and learns to love it because it gives him some of the results he so desperately wants. Fine.
Then he starts mastering the rules and can play in his sleep (I actually did dream a very detailed dream). This is when said person starts believing that his path and his master is the only way to go. The only truth. Is becomes like a religion. Limiting your game to one gameplan, one structure.
I have seen numerous debates on this very forum concerning whos "religion" is the right one. People giving advice from their point of view, trying to convert new followers.
People giving advice that is completely ridiculus given the "victim"s situation or current religion.
I admit I have done this too.
Why do you think there are so many methods that all claim to work? How can two methods both work equally well? How can two gurus both be right and both get the girls?
Because the methods are not the ultimate truth. Even if they make you understand a lot of things about attraction they are not more than a small piece of the bigger picture.
Each Guru have developed a method that works with his own strengths or weaknesses, with his own previous experiences.
If you wanna run direct game you need inner game, if you wanna run the M3 model you need to communicate. If you lack these things you will not go far, at least with those specific methods. Yes, I would say the same about all other methods as well.
When we choose a path we tend to develop only the skills we need in order to master that method. The ones that get really good are the ones who search beyond their masters teachings, the ones who are trying to see the big picture. The ones who try to improve themselves on every single level. Every single part of their personality. Inner game, kindness, AMOGing, Opening, negging, looks, fashion, cocky funny, NLP, body language, body building, knitting... All of those things may improve your overall awesomeness! In the end you realize that you have improved so many parts of yourself that you actually dont need to run game anymore. You can use any of the methods with great success. You can understand people following other gurus and what problems they are facing.
We always suppose that other people have had the same training that we take for granted. That people have so many more skills than we do, it is simply not true.
A true master could probably do a successful pickup reading my shopping list, milk, eggs, tomatoes...
Take the step, look beyond your guru, maximize your potential, fill the gaps, grow as an individual, become the man you were meant to be. Take your rightful place, get rid of your limiting beliefs.
See you on the other side guys!
Ezo
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