kiss closed a few times but shes full of sh*t...last 2 days shes been very hot then cold but i know she is interested. tired of her games as its becoming tiring. got to a point where she knows that i know that shes into me so its no secret, yet she continues to play.

i was thinking of giving the LJBF speech to test her response...

I was going to ask it in the following way...(even if its via a random text msg)

hey, i was thinking, this doesnt seem to be heading anywhere, should we just leave it at being fiends?

if she is really into me she say something like

'ok if thats what you want'

if i killed the attraction somewhere along the line she will probably reply with something like...

'ye i think so too'

have you ever tried this? (even when youre still into her and want to pursue her?)

honestly, I never pull mode unless I REALLY want to JUST BE FRIENDS. At every other time, I usually say that there is NO way I can be friends with you. . . this is usually in response to them saying, "wow, you're an awesome friend captn" or we get on teh discussion of friends and aquaintances and I say, that it would be impossible for us to "just be friends" because of the desire, and fun stuff that we do. I use this alot in the courting phase and show them that I'm not like every other guy she has written off in the past. And when it goes south, well, thats it, I usually break contact, unless I see a Friends with benefits potential.

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ok this is off topic and switching things around a bit but... my thoughts are that if she says 'wow youre an awesome friend', you have either messed up by getting yourself in the friend zone and its going to be hard to come out of that, OR she is disqualifying herself like a PUA would do (which is not something i have seen many women doing before). when they say youre a great friend they normally mean it. this is very seldom a shit test. i also think that saying 'sorry we could never be friends because i desire/like you' would just push her back even more in terms of being a sexual partner, as she has already made up her mind about you being nothing more than a friend. (thats just my take on it anyway). to come out of this i would freeze her out and if possible a jealousy tactic. (this is how i actually got my last gfriend)


Anyway my initial post was more on about giving her the LJBF in order to test if she is really into you or not if youre ever having trouble reading her and want to cut to the chase...however the flip side is using it as a disqualifier as you probably well know (slightly different wording as youre calling her your sister, which is pretty much implying 'lets just be friends')...obvious/classic mystery stuff but i'll ramble a bit anyway on my personal experience using it....during first approach while creating attraction, as soon as she shit tests me with something like, 'hey hands off!' implying that im into her sexually (for example if i touch her leg by accident), i give her the...'oh dont worry about that dear, kissing you would be like kissing my sister'. youre now something she cant have and it WILL fuck with her system, this works so dam well for me that i almost use it every single time, even 10-15min into a set when i can see there is already attraction, using it will usually enhance that attraction even further. call it push/pull i guess!

what i really like about it is you can also use this same line as a disqualifier if she ever rejects (as you approach her) and doesnt even let you get a word in....immediately after the rejection... say..'oh you must have thought i was hitting on you, dont worry kissing you would be like kissing my sister seriously..' and immediately go into a piece/routine. you will save yourself and continue the set 9 out of 10 times.

gota love the versatility of the 'sister' disqualifier.

anyway im going horribly off topic here.