I guess this can be used as an indicator of how good your appearence is too. Beeing well groomed and styled would of course give you a higher percentage of smiles

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"Some rules can be bent, others, can be broken" - Morpheus

Last month i was at the mall and this girl(8 or 9) was about to walk past me but once i gave her eye contact and held it she just stoped, she didn't even keep walking ,she just froze--> in the middle of the store(it was an amazing feeling .i now know that i should have opened right there, but i didn't because her mom was there and i dont have a clue on how to do a 2 set with a mom.anyways, later that day i was walking in the mall and i see her agin but this time she's got her mom and dad on either side of her(and she was on her cell phone).i tryed to give eye contact agin but once she saw me she looked up at the roof . wtf is that?!?!?!
does that mean she was interested but just shy?it seems like that would be showing dis interest by rolling her eyes like that but she also was showing signs of nervousness(talking extra loud on her phone,walking faster,and she was also blushing)does any 1 know what this means? this girl was fffiiiiinnneeeee

you initiated complex feelings that she most likely doesn't ever get from random guys and at first she was into it, but then she had buyers remorse most likely. Other than that she might have been imbaraced because her parents were right there and she might have been talking about you on the cell phone.

But since your a PUA and inner game is important go with this:
you demonstrated so much higher value she feels unworthy of you, so she just blushed and was scared off by the intense wave of awesomeness you sent her way.

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I do get a lot of eye contacts like when I'm looking at this other person talking in class then I quickly look at the other girls and catch them always looking at me, but then its weird because when i approach them they seem uninterested.

But speaking of a good feelings I once locked eyes with this girl and she kept walking but the person in front of her stopped and ended up running into her.

i always smile if I catch them looking at me so they don't get that feeling of "he must think I'm a creep".

like that old cheesy pick up line, "I noticed you noticing me, so I just wanted to put you on notice that I noticed you back."

All that can be said with one smile and hell of a lot less cheese.

But maybe I don't get ur question. R u making eye contact w/ other girls while ur talking to the one girl? Or is it after?

hey guys hope u dont mind my 2 cents.

Ima guy from southern africa n m not sure how iz like up there in the world but yeah down here m sad t say race does matter alot especially when it comes t relationships...though ppl do tend t ignore it, my question is... even though the race thing is a reality, should WE as pua's (in my case Pua in trainin) be effected by the race problems?

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No I was just look at who ever raises their hand in class and when I move my eyes to see who looking at me I always catch one of them sneaking a glance. And yeah I don't smile at them because they immediately look away.

there it is! they're shy. I'm guessing your in high school? Like a bunch of other guys have said, girls aren't used to having a guy look back at them dead in their eye at that age. They're probably just really uncomfortable with it.

Nope not high school in college.

I haven't really gone through the whole college experience so I can't tell you how it's like. I only went freshman year. I'm sure guys a bunch of guys here go to college and they can help u figure them out. But the older they get the easier it is they'll keep eye contact w/ u. Just make sure your not slouching when ur sitting at your desk.

Lol a slouching guy giving you eye contact. That would definitely be creepy like Im devising a plan to kidnap her.

Oddly enough I've been doing this too lately. I'm in philadelphia, so people are walking around me all the time. I locked eyes with a beautiful girl today by the bookstore as she and her friends passed, and she smiled first. She was one of only a few girls I tried this with, so it was a great feeling. Actually sort of elevated my mood all day, oddly.

Yeah i've defiantly improved my EC tremendously. It used to be a task for me to keep eye contact whilst in a conversation, but now it's natural for me.

But i'm still confused on how to approach EC with strangers walking past you, in same class, etc. Do you just get their eye contact with a straight face on and try and look alpha(chest out/lean back..basically making yourself look big)?? Kind of like a tough guy look. Or should i walk in a nonchalant manner with a small smirk on myself at all times? Or should i get EC and i get it from them...smile/say hi/or just keep thinking "im the prize baby" and see if she interrupts that and smiles back?

Any ideas?

ok i'm new in the game, but i've read and experimented a bit. This is what i found out about EC:

1. when a girl walks toward you. it's best to wait until the distance between you is like she passes you 3 or 4 secs later. this way it's more natural and she probably doesn't look away.
2. keep your head a bit tilted to the side. it's a curious signal.
3. peacocking helps.
4. smile
5. say hi when she passes you. next time you give her ec she says hi to you

also i've read that:
- if a person looks away to the sky or side, then you have creeped hir out (eyecontact is an agressive type of body language).
- if a person looks away to the ground, then it's a sign of submitment. so it's a good thing, but she's just shy... say hi

edit: i like to add:
add a little nod and they say hi

Thanks man