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PostPosted: Tue Sep 01, 2009 2:35 am 
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I closed a girl, took her on holiday, and made the absolutely idiotic mistake of buying her gifts. Since she went back, she has made no attempts to contact me again. Is this a case where the situation can be salvaged or is it a case of live and learn? Is there any way to regain value, once it has been given away? Would be grateful for any advice, no matter how strong. Thanks in advance.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 01, 2009 5:28 am 
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Has she tried contacting you at all? It's a good idea to let some time pass and act non-needy. Then when you reengage, you can game her without making those mistakes


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Has she tried contacting you at all? It's a good idea to let some time pass and act non-needy. Then when you reengage, you can game her without making those mistakes
No she hasn't. She's done this before. Took her for a holiday in London, then no contact for 3 months, then she re-engaged. Next time I saw her was in her home country (Norway), then no contact again, I re-engaged, then took her for a holiday in Asia. I'm just unsure, and could use some advice, as to whether I should wait for her to re-engage, or do it on my own terms.


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You are labeled as a provider. Move on. Don't make the same mistake.


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lol you're her sugar daddy.

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You are labeled as a provider. Move on. Don't make the same mistake.
Duly noted, I closed another girl two days before and this time, ZERO gifts. Thanks for all the advice guys, really appreciate it.


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if you had made her pay her way on the holidays you might have kept her. im assuming you didnt only buy her gifts but paid for just about bloody everything. you know what you did wrong and thats what counts!


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if you had made her pay her way on the holidays you might have kept her. im assuming you didnt only buy her gifts but paid for just about bloody everything. you know what you did wrong and thats what counts!
Again, words of wisdom, thank you. Do have one question though, if she does re-initiate contact, do I ignore it this time?


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probably should.

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