Hi guys been lurking around these forums lately and decided to ask for some help.

So the other day i was at a wedding, and i came across a girl i hadn't seen in a while (10 for sure), I sat down and sparked up a conversation, things went well... plenty of Kino from both ends, she was throwing IOI's like crazy, even got into a littlen whip cream fight and took some pics, SO i got her email.

Well a day later I sent her a email, saying "You should definitely send me some of those wedding pics. And you should definitely give me your number so its not forever before the next time we hang."

her reply:"Yes and Yes <insert number> I miss you... lets freaking hangout. <3"

So i sent her one more back saying: "I can do these days, whats best for you, ill be in the area, and call you at this time"

She says " Sure, not like I do much anyway call me ill be around"

NOW here's the problem.. she got back with her ex... the next day, and were supposed to get together, she says how she's so bored all the time, and she sent me another message, saying she wants me to come play, and how shes so bored all the time...

So the get together is still on, and she still seems interested... but now shes back together with her ex... what should I do? How should I play this out? I really like this girl, I know it may seem like one-itis, but i don't wanna give this one up...

Any tips?

Don't talk about the b/f and don't let her put you in the friend zone. Resume as planned.

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Yeah, I don't plan on letting her LJBF me at all.

Thanks Reagen, that link definitely gives me some ideas to incorporate into what i was planning, it got me thinking good.

Considering he was an Ex so recently there must be a weak point between them to play on.

I'm thinking DHV spiked stories (especially ones with girls), coupled with spontaniety, followed by/threaded with some Bfdestroyer( Lowering said ex's Value) will work.

Now this girl is trying to flake out on me, and honestly i'm too busy this week to rearrange times for her, plus why would i do that anyway.

Here is what im thinking, which of these do you guys like, if any:

1.Let her go

2.Arrange another time and just flake on her in return.

3.Tell her "Text me sometime if you ever decide not to flake."

or maybe something else?

Mate rally let her go.
Usualy get back periods are really happy for girls and really want to give it a try...
and are really involved into mending and trying to work things out with their ex...
So it goes like this, right now she's highly motivated to be faithfull to him, and trying to work things out,and she aint looking for nothing more then a a friend, se is insecured, and anxious, but high spirited,u apearing in the picture, will only land un in LJBF zone, either she'll want u as support,or as an comparison model.
But your competition is quite stiff, because she still has feeling for the guy, and the guy is on his best behaivior,.
There are plenty of chicks out there, and are really easyer targets then this one.
U can play it cool, and use bfdestroyer, and avoid the LJBF, and even fuck her, but u wont end up with her, she'll just use u to get pass him, or not...it's pretty tricky, she just might see thru your game and shut u down...
Your choice mate, my advice let her go...
And dont tell her to stop flakeing, she'll see that u're offended, and drop u, and not arange something and then flake her, she'll drop u too, cause she has other oprions, and u'll end up as a jerk in her book.
Best of luck

agreed, even if she breaks up with him and contacts you, it will still never work as a relationship, you will be used as a rebound...

its just a case of wrong timings which everyones had before,

i had similar feelings for a girl who broke up with her long term bf but i made th move too soon, we ended up fucking but as it was in the "newly single" stage of her life i was never considered when she finally was ready to settle down again...

shit happens

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