been working a hb8 model for a while, going great, she SHOULD still be coming over for a meal sunday night if i havent blown it too much.

text went as follows:
me:sup flaya reckon you could stop in 15 earlier so i can stop in to my mother shop. its on the way. need somethin off her. you can meet a real wog.

~we were on the way to a salsa class and she has not met my mother yet. my mother is way cool it would have been casual.

her:wat am i taxi now?? and u want me 2pay 4 dinner?? haha ur a real gentleman lol c u 2nite
me: dont be late
her:haha u wish u could treat me like that. maybe ill jus meet u at dancin?
me:sure ill be there after the soccer 10 was it?
~the soccer started at the same time as dance class i was teasing her
her:haha ill be in town by then
me:dont you help out friends? does there always have to be something in it for you.


no reply.


me: haha ive lost my lift havent i



no reply.

so i rang her close to time of pick up and the conversation went along these lines;

Hey miss kayla stop keeping me in suspense are we still on for tonight?
shes like yeah were on.
im like ok great i just had an offer for a free ticket to the adelaide united match and we bantered i joked about blowing it off she said dont worry about tonight we can do it wednesday, she sounded very cool about it all and a little disinterested. so we cancelled dance, then i rang my friends to say i was goin to the match, they bailed cos of weather soooo i call kayla back, no answer. i text her im like oi friends bailed lets do dance class.
shes like too late i lent car to mum. (probably bullshit)

on the phone i said to her come over sunday we'll have a meal and she said this; are you sure you want me to come over sunday? after i had already asked her to.

somethings up im not sure where im at this has completely fucked up the rhythm of how things were going im confused as i thought i was on the right track by playing these tests now its blown up in my face and i might miss out on a model HB8. im not happy. its not exactly raining women for me over here.

heres the reponse i think i should play out but its fairly going against myself but im in new territory here i dont know what to do.

"kayla i feel bad, i think i came across rude on friday and i bailed on dance! come over earlier tomoro and we'll go through some steps. ill nail that turn."

Dude,

You bounced her around to much. She is still coming over so what you do is get past the testing. Keep the flow moving forward and don't apologies for anything.

The trick is to show her your interested and not game playing anymore.

Don't become a sucker just quit with the back and forth.
Take the lead and move everything forward on your own.

D.

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agreee with the "stop the back and forth"

theres usually a time to just man up and step in there....

teasing is good to start off with but a constant push an pull seems like it has put her off balance, mayb making her rethink her original thourghts of you as you could just be playing games?

if it asll goes to plan its nothing more than a minor setback but i wouldnt keep txting/ringing to apologise or wateva before you see her as (however tempting, believe me i know) its probably best to let her figure out her thoughts on you when your face to face as txts an stuff can be taken the wrong way...

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