This was echo'd in another one of my posts but it wasnt the main topic so I decided to start a new thread....

i often call a girl out on being attracted to me in a playful way...they normally respond with something like...'oh really, and what makes you think that I am even remotely interested in you!??'

I normally respond with...'ah i dont know, maybe its because you make it just SO DAM BLATANTLY OBVIOUS!' ..implying she has no game and that i can see straight through her. shes normally lost for words as I only say this when i KNOW there is interest. She will respond with something like 'well then you are terrible at reading people!' or something to that effect, OR in a rare case she will actually admit it. (if she is a confident gal)

I was trying to think of what one would actually achieve by calling a girl out on this and my thoughts were...

1. it shows confidence, and youre letting her know that you're not falling for her games and can see straight through them

2. to get her to admit her attraction for you...which ultimately gives you alot of power.

Would you call her out on being attracted to you? and if so what would you hope to achieve by doing so. (reason why i want to get this down is because this is very much my 'style'...alot of my game involves reframing to convey that she is pursuing me so i'd really like to master this concept.

I use the same tactic.

Any denial or rebuttal is then countered with "the more you deny it, the more I know its true" etc etc, and of course the beauty of this is that it IS true because so long as she stays engaged in the dialogue she as good as admitting it.

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thanks for the reply...
thats why I love it so much, they have the choice to LEAVE/lose contact if they are not interested, but just the fact that they are sticking around shows that they are indeed interested...like you said she is pretty much admitting to it by sticking around. you might as well actually say to them...'hey if youre interested in me just carry on talking to me...'....i mean really what can she say! if she stops talking to you because of her pride but is still interested in you, then she loses out. tough shit

I tell women when I know they are into me.

That doesn't mean they have bad game.

And I wouldn't advise "calling them out", it makes you sound like you think them being attracted to you is something to be embarresed about.

Fin you make a very good point and I agree.

Maybe my definition of 'calling her out' is a bit twisted. I was under the impression that this means to directly get something out in the open above the sub text that is going on. eg. 'you know, the way you put me through your little games, its so obvious that you like me'...said smiling and in a friendly manner, not in a derogatory manner and making fun of her so that she feels shamed.

Could you clear up the definition of 'calling her out'? (im actually fairly new to this phrase so i may well be using it incorrectly)

Calling someone out, comes from a poker term to "call".

It's usually associated with exposing a liar or hypocrite.

I usually just mention it passively in conversation..

"I mean, we're both into each-other and thats a natural and beuatiful thing, I don''t understand why sme people in the world need to act as if the idea's of lust or love are some big deal that should be tmepered with caution"

That kind of thing

Calling someone out, comes from a poker term to "call".

It's usually associated with exposing a liar or hypocrite.

I usually just mention it passively in conversation..

"I mean, we're both into each-other and thats a natural and beuatiful thing, I don''t understand why sme people in the world need to act as if the idea's of lust or love are some big deal that should be tmepered with caution"

That kind of thing