Hey there Adam! How ya doin brutha! Well, here's my issue:

So I get this girl who I initially approached maybe an hour after I re approach her on the dance floor with her friend( who was interested in my best friend, which worked out for me) and we get very sexual on the dancefloor. It would actually be worth mentioning that even before this encounter on the dancfloor, she approached me while some guys tried to dance with her, then left while saying "we'll be back". Didn't buy it. So when I saw them on the dancefloor again and re-engaged them, my best friend occupied her friend, and I got my target. Like I said, we dance very sexual, she let's my explore her body without resistance, I kiss her neck, turn her around and look at her as if i want to kiss her, but doesn't let me and looks up, so I go back to her neck again. She turns around and has her back to me still dancing as sexy as can be, then i do more exploring and kiss and bite her neck. I yet again, turn her around, look at her, go for the lips, lets me kiss, but looks up again and once again I go to the neck. This goes on for at least 15 minutes and then her and her friend say, "were gonna go upstairs, we'll be back!"

My question is: How do I get her to make out with me without resistance, and what's the proper way with handling the " we'll be back" B.S?

Thanks for everything Adam!

Victor (LA bootcamp)

Wow! man I gotta say your a true fucking legend and I really dig everything you have done for the community, so that's why I now seek your advice.

As of right now I'am in los angeles, paying my way through college, I live in a very tiny room in a backhouse shared by 3 other people, and I have an average entry-level job that supports me and leaves very little left at the end of the month.

So I was wondering if there is a way to build a female social circle, without inviting them to my place and also without having to cost me too much?

Also I was wondering if you have any specific techniques or guidelines that can be used with or without entourage game to game a super rediculously retarded hot girl that is a true HB 11 (think as if the girl is megan fox, with all the perks,confidence, and people trying to get with her)

PS I know it's an insane question, but I thank you in advance for trying to answer it , and I know I should not be outcome dependent, but my whole goal with pick up is to get to the point where I can get any girl I want 90% of the time, and again thank you

Hey Adam,

Thanks for all of your advices mate, thanks for answering my field reports, etc2. And congratulations on your marriage too! Have a happy and blessed new life.

So Adam, if you noticed my posts in your thread, for the last 8 months, it's revolving on the same one girl. I know, maybe yourself will be like "that's too long" or something, but I believe she was attracted to me. And thanks to your method, and your simple book "Principles of Attraction", she was the 1st girl ever that I've ever been on an instant date, she's the 1st girl that I attracted in a correct away, etc.

So Adam, it was all beautiful moments, if it's not because of the logistics (she can't drive, and her chauffeur is sick when she's able to meet me, and I can't pick her up, because I can't drive either!!) she would be fallen in to arms. So after that 1 failed attempt to hang out with her, I went out of the town for 3 weeks, and what I thought is I messed up in this "keep in touch before attempting another try to ask her out" period.

I was needy because I deeply fell in love with her ( we haven't got together yet, but I know she is attracted to me, judged from her compliance and investment in me), so I sent needy texts, implying that she' more commited than it is, etc. So until one day, I texted her "You know, it sucks that we have to say goodbye so soon, and it's really rare to find somebody who I actually want to hang out with, somebody who's actually interesting. I've met a lot of girls, (she knows that I have a lot of female friends) and there's just something unique about you. So that's why I invite you for a final hang out with us (me and my best friend Grace, we've been out once).
(she's moving to another city, so I told her it might be the last hangout). When are you free?"

And she was like "IDK, I feel so happy that we have to say goodbye so soon, haha kidding XD.. seems like you're busy eh? Talk to you later and I'm never free.. hehehe.... good bye!".

I thought "game over". It's not funny at all,and she reacted really differently now.


So Adam, I'll be seeing another girl, dating another, but maybe I won't find a girl of her quality (intelligence, dilligence, etc.). Maybe I will, but it would never be the same.

Is it still possible to recite her interest?? I know that this things happens, because girls are all about emotion. She'll be moving out of town, so is it possible? Long long before, I've managed to get a high value guy in her eyes, she complimented my honesty, understandings of women, etc, and she's even still interested after I told her that I'm a student of yours (I recommended your method to her too . Is it the same way as getting your ex back??

Thanks a million, mate!!

Best pal,
Steven

Hey Adam, I just wanna say first that I love your material, I listen to you every day in my car. Thanks for all you've done man, seriously.

My problem isn't with approaching, opening, or comfort building. I have a SERIOUS issue with LMR. I can get girls into a room, and make out for as long as I want, but I'd say that 75% of the time I don't get further than that. I'll go for the button on her pants and she'll take my hand and put it somewhere else. This gets incredibly frustrating and most of the time i'll just leave. This happened to me last night. Happened to me two weeks ago, and at least 4 other times in recent memory. So, as I'm typing this I have 4 hickeys on the right side of my neck, but did not get laid last night. How can I break down this resistance? Thanks in advance.

-Jeremy

Hey Adam, general questions:

1. I am playful and a funny guy, but to be "that person", I need to be in state, which not a state that I'm always in. If I'm not in state, my teasings become insulting and it becomes a little bit difficult. So how do I "pump her state" a.k.a being fun in moment like this?? Can I pump her state or add value by giving a lot of fun topics to talk about instead??

2. For social circle game, do I have to get close to each person in the circle? Or having them as hang out friends is enough?? Because getting close to each of the entourage member is too tiring and time consuming.

Thanks for this one, mate!!

Best pal,
Steven

Ok, just copy/pasted from FB

Hey Adam,

first of all, congrats to you and Amanda for getting married, best wishes to both of you,

second, i have a question that would kinda suit your style of game (social proof, social circle, etc). I work as a bartender and "party guide" (like tour guide for big dance events like Sensation White and stuff) from time to time so i keep in touch with a lot of hostesses and other good looking girls, but its always a 1 on 1 interaction. I was planning to throw a house party when i'll have the house to myself (ye well, i'm 19, don't have my own place), to kinda create a new social circle (my old one is like 75% guys and they are terrible with women. And no, i dont want to make them wings.) So what should i be aware of when putting a bunch of hot girls who don't know each other in the same room for the first time? Is it even a good idea? And what should i do with my old social circle & how to keep them away from the party so they don't "leech" off my value? They know the party will be happening and all want to come, but cant really "contribute" anything to it...

Thanks in advance man, you are a real inspiration.

T.K.

p.s.:
Social proof rocks, especially when your date is late and when she comes you are already sitting down with a FHM girl (With who you arrange to go partying the next week)

Hey Adam, hope ur doing well.

I've got three questions I'm hoping you're able to answer.

1. How do I act positive/add value without being the guy thats too pushy or too dancing monkey like. Because it seems that when I try to be those things, I seem try hard or maybe too pushy.

2. what do I do when I ask compliance from someone and she refuses to comply?

.. and how do you deal with someone who takes advantage of your good intentions of helping out? maybe they constantly ask you ro do favours, or something like that. How do I prevent from becoming a pushover?

Hey Adam,

first of all i wanna thank you for all your hard work you put in this forum and answering all of our questions!

Now here is my question:
im 20 years old and in college, now this is the time where everybody is getting drunk all the time and everybody thinks thats cool. Well, i dont drink and everytime i talk to a girl she ask why i dont drink. They think this is just lame and a big turn off. How do you handle it when a girl asks you why you dont drink?

Many thanks,

Rich