A safe alternative to this is an energy drink called ExtenZe®. Its a drug free erection maximizer. Haven't had it a while but last time I had one, woke up with a boner before work, used it. As an energy drink and the boner lasted a long time.

You should still be attracted to your partner enough that you don't need any supplement for it, but just try drinking this before you get into it. 8<------------------------>

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Ok, not to keep bumping this or anything... but...

Since I met this girl through some friends, we all ended up together tonight. There really is another guy, which is nice since it means she wasn't completely lying. I can't help but feel like she can't like him that much, though... given that she pursued everything with me (she asked me out, she suggested going back to my place after dinner, hell she even made the first move on the couch...)

The question now is whether I try to pursue her in any way. I'm not sure how much I want to, besides getting a second chance at bat anyway.

I think I did tonight well. I saw my therapist who managed to break me out of the self-destructive funk I've been in since she dumped me... I was my normal sarcastic, hopefully funny self and wasn't paying any real attention to the chick.

If I did pursue anything though, what would I do? Just find a way to be alone with her and make a move or something?

Viagra does not help you that much when your main problem is anxiety. Yes it helps you reach an erection, but only if you're aroused. That being said, viagra is fairly "old" anyway and there are better drugs, which help you maintain your erection longer. ( cialis ) Then again there are drugs, which force you to get an erection, but this includes sticking a needle in your penis and I'm sure you don't want that. All in all, these drugs are expensive and since you don't have genuine erectile dysfunction, I'd suggest not taking any drugs. If you do end up getting a drug, be warned that you might become dependent of it ( as in you feel that you cannot perform sex without the erection pill ).


Because your problem seems to be anxiety ( I'm guessing you're a virgin ? nothing to be ashamed of here, I know lot's of people who've had this ), I'd suggest drinking a couple of alcoholic beverages before having sex. But only take 1-3 drinks, no more!

Ok seriously, while I wasn't necessarily into this chick when we tried to have sex... I think something about sleeping with or waking up next to her and cuddling triggered some feelings. Fuck.

Would have been SO much easier if she'd told me about the other guy a day sooner...

But now what?

Right now I just want to email her, let her know that my problem isn't permanent and that it would be a shame to throw away our chances because I had one bad night. And really, how much can she like this other guy if she was in my apartment in the first place?

But somehow I feel like that's a really bad idea. Doomed to failure, as it were.

Seriously, responses. Now. I need them.

Stop focusing on trying to get aroused and start focusing on becoming relaxed when you're in bed with a woman.

Boom. Problem solved.

If you are having a normal erection and still not able to have sex, one of the reasons can be a tight or thick hymen (a membrane that is usually present at the opening of the vagina in a woman). This problem can be corrected by just nicking the hymen by a gynaecologist. It is a few minutes job and very simple. Please get your girl examined by a gynaecologist.

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Wow.. you went waaaaaayyyy back to get this thread. It's been with all different women too... hymen's not the problem. I've had more success lately though...

This is a problem I had before the girl I was with was a 9-10. I was not a Virgin but sadly the girls I had banged before this girl was when I was drunk at parties or w/e the case I always had something to drink before hand. This time I was sober and nervous because she was so hot that it was up but when it came down to it my dick got scared lol!! I banged a few more chicks not 9-10's while sober and it cured my problem when I got up to 9-10's.

Tyrone, please read the forum rules before you post again.

Your boy,
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