The women in England are pretty much the same everywhere else as far as I know. My game is more successful in Wales however I need to get practice on the London girls.
The thing about London which differs from most countries is that because London is such a huge city with people commuting daily to places where they work but never grew up people are very guarded and find it social awkward when speaking to a stranger. This was my initial problem until I went to Wales where everyone is much more social and outgoing and dont mind people coming up to them...
This makes it a little bit more difficult to practice my game and come across demonstrating higher value, I still struggle with making a good first impression because of this factor...
however, practice makes perfect and women are all programmed the same worldwide, so once you break the socially guarded London persona you can carry on business as usual.
I like many before me used to wait for opportunity to come my way to use my natural game, many nights were successful but most were not. This was because more often that not I was waiting for women to approach me! Stupid thing to be waiting for, still some did and networking through a new group of high value male friends gave me a social boost. I wasnt using them but they helped me along, it wasnt until I met a great friend of mine who introduced me into the world of pre planned game that I started thinking clearly.
I am only 19 so I have many years ahead of my to practice and perfect my openers etc.
I will be posting a separate post about this, but I still struggle with closing a set properly...
Through hanging around with a group of new friends who were all in tern very alpha I had a certain new found status, it was this status and some dutch courage that helped me lost my virginity at the age of 18. However I fell badly for the girl and almost a year on I have only just got over my oneitus :/
I have been with two other women since who I have used some game on to obtain, one I naturally played off to make jealous without even knowing I was using game. It is only when I look back that I realize what I did...
...the other I remember I used my typical London charm to close using a cocky funny attitude when I was introduced to her. I made it seem as if my friend had introduced me to lots of people that night and I was a little annoyed that I was being introduced to another. This however was still left down to opportunity, if I hadn't been introduced I wouldn't have closed on my own. I feel that I am still subconsciously dependent on that of my close friends to give me the openings.
However after learning that approaching women with a plan is more successful than waiting around for them to make a move I hit the clubs to test it out. I've only built up the courage about 3 months ago to do so, and I have approached 3 individual women and 2 sets. But still I was only able to approach the 2 sets because a friend new one of the girls. THIS IS MY DOWNFALL!!!
I know I have it in me though, I just struggle with building up the "rapport" with new people that I approach.
It is also made difficult that I have no one to Sarge with in London as all of my friends here don't think much of it or have girlfriends (not to self, girlfriends hate me because of how I am....lust maybe? who knows
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In Wales however I have lots of people I could Sarge with...but I cant be there all the time so my game is suffering...
I was introduced into game by a freind telling me about it, I am a logical thinker so I understood it but didn't really want to take part, until I read Style's book the Game I wasn't truly sold. YES! I know...I am a Style Child...
When I started to get into the Game I made it lifes plan to break confidence barriers. I have already broken so many that I no longer fear standing out and making an impact on a club. I still haven't killed my fear of rejection though.
(sorry I have written an essay, its early in the morning as well so it might not make sense)
- The Quid
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