Hi all.
I'm 19 male and Asian.
and never had a girlfriend.
or went out on an official date.
sure I went out with a girl alone, dinner and a movie a few times but is that a date, I'm not too sure myself.
Still a virgin at this game and in real life.

I guess my story started when I was real young and fantasized about hypnotizing women. Then I moved onto a bit about body language and stuff but nothing too concrete. Even when I stumbled upon the Game, I didn't pay much heed to it as well school, games and sports were priorities. You could say I'm a fat nerd who likes sports. I'm hitting the 20s and serving compulsory army for 2 years then.

I suppose my main aim is to sharpen my social skills and find a potential wife.

My calling came when I read (still am reading halfway) The Game by Neil Strauss. I was filled with excitement like a boy on Christmas morning. Here was the solution to getting laid I thought. I could walk around campus and bone any chick I wanted.
LOL at my childish fantasies.
I'm also filled with fear. Fear of the power that if the this really worked, would I then be able to control it. There was also this fear of being jaded. That every girl would turn out to be just another game, a temporary high.

I could go on and on about my history, plans for the future, my fears but this should suffice for now.

I hope for your guidance.

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Hey bro,

I'm a noob at "The Game" (100 pages deep), but it sounds like you could use an excuse to get you talking to girls.

I've worked in retail for about 3 years. Various places. But for the last year, I worked on campus at a shop on a crowded street. Tons of girls roll through there. I took that as an opportunity to really explore the bounds with what you could say and what you couldn't say to women. Not only that, but working at this joint gave me an excuse to walk up to them and say, "How you ladies doin' today?" It really has developed my confidence level alot more than ever before. Also, due to the magnitude of the student body of a university, I see how disposable these conversations are. Even if you mess up, who cares. You're probably never going to see them again!

Get yourself a job near your school where you are forced to speak with girls. That will help you develop some fundamental social skills. That would be my advice. Even though you cant really put it on a nice resume'

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