LOL . . . I like to think it's more of an "ambush" than a chase.

Dude i've seen a similar website...it needs to be taken down. at least people here want to change...

I agree. But its not breaking any laws and these people think they have people who 'understand them'. That may be the case but its like hanging around heroin addicts when you're trying to go clean.

This guy's problem was self esteem. Like expat said, he had the money(was worth over a quarter million when he died), didn't look too bad, good job, all of that. But he couldn't see it because at some point in his life(after reading some of his blog, basically throughout his youth), his self esteem was just beaten down relentlessly until it was nothing more than a bloody pulp.

I personally know how this guy felt. The constant envy he had when he saw pretty girls with other guys, the sob stories about the lack of sex, and dealing with people who always assume you're having sex but you're not.
The only part I couldn't understand was his desire to off other people in the process-I always only ever thought of doing that to myself, never others. But I think his childhood(bully for a brother, unattached mother, somewhat unattached father as well) might have had something to do with this psychosis. Combine bad parenting(the family didn't even see this coming) with crushed self esteemed early in life, and you have a formula for tragedy.
I don't want to make too many excuses for the guy as he did a horrible thing, but I really do believe this could have been prevented.

It's true, when it comes to comparing Western countries and Eastern Europe.
Girls in America, the UK tend to be a lot more arrogant and bitchy, have some weird fetishes (e.g. hanging out with street thugs, black bros, etc), are quite rude and never hesitate to say 'Fuck off' to an attractive guy.
Believe me, it's difficult to keep self-esteem in place when something like that happens.
In contrast, girls in Baltic states, Russia, Ukraine (I am originally from eastern europe as well) tend to be more friendly and open-minded.
That does not mean, that they are not selective, yet I can feel the difference every time I go back home.

And believe me, there are only 10% of girls there, who fall for a man, just because he's a foreigner. Yet they are still more realistic, smart, funny and make not only a good lover, but also a perfect soul-mate. Unlike arrogant yet worthless western-european and american bitches.

I tried to find explanation for that but could not. Probably, it's because guys here have lower self-esteem and tend to settle with ugly and average girls, thus completely spoiling them on the whole. You'll rarely see an attractive guy with an ugly girl in Russia, Ukraine or elsewhere.

Yes, but many men in America and the UK tend to be immature buffoons. Just take a look at some of the posts written by aspiring PUA's on this site. What they consider "game" is really nothing more than immature playground insults. Deal with that crap all your life and even Mother Teresa would have been telling guys to "fuck off". This has somehow become the culture here. Many people of both sexes develop an arrogant, unfriendly, defensive shield that is easily noticeable by people of different cultures.

This is why I think it's so important for young people to travel and experience other cultures. My hope is that through meeting many different people of varying cultures, we will eventually come to that the "bitchy, arrogant attitude" is usually a nothing but a thin, fragile shell that is easily shattered with a friendly, open mind.

We can continue to share our ideas on this topic but really . . . we only have a few options:

1. You can complain about it and be a miserable son of a bitch.
2. You can complain about it and run away (But if you think this is a solution, why do you think "exapt_of_love" STILL COMPLAINS about this all the time?)
3. You can accept reality. You can figure it out. You can find you personal solution and learn to make every cultural dynamic work in your favor. (Ever meet those guys who smile and remain positive through nearly every situation that is tossed at them? Wonder why?)

sorry, thats just how that post came off haha

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i've thought about doing it to others. but not out of hatred. just out of lulz and the yearning to have a real life high score

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Hanging out/dating black guys(or "bros") is a weird fetish now?

I knew we were kind of low on the "attractive guy" totem pole in many eyes(why I don't know), but seriously?

"When asked why he went on such a deadly rampage, police responded simply 'He did it for the lulz'. Back to you in New York."

You know? I was just thinking, MAYBE if society didn't push getting laid as hard as it does, I dont think this guy would've done what he did. BUT because 75% of people are douchebags and worry about whos getting some and who isn't, well......yeah, you do the math.

A reason why he didn't get any chicks was cuz he didn't even act like a AFC, not even talking about Alpha.

Just saw this original video. It really stood out the point that he wanted to learn how to emotionally connect with people, much like my situation. The difference is I try to handle my emotional repression my going out and talking to random girls, not shooting at them.

But this guy still never learned how to feel emotional connection with another person before the exit plan.

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I don't like you either, with that forum thread title.

Read up about positive psychology, and when you do PM me! I'm not even going to read your post.

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hahaha!

That's why you should read the origonal post.