Hey I am 20 years old and I go to college and I need some help with social value.

I am going to start back school soon and I want to get some advice before all of the fun starts. Usually at my school me and my friends will go to college house parties or dance clubs. One of things I am trying to focus on is building social values at these parties and social gatherings. There's already alot of people because its a college but I just feel like I am one of many at a party or a club. How can I up my social value? I have seen other posts about this and the advice given is to just open up everyone you see. Is that the best way to do it? I have some approach anxiety but not overwhelming, but even then it seems kind of difficult to just go and open everyone at a party of club. I usually go with friends of mine and sometimes will bring a few girls but not always. I understand that being seen with girls is another good way to pump social value.

Also, is there another natural next step after this, to help me start actually closing. I feel like this should be way easier than it really is, I consider myself a pretty good looking guy and I try to follow a lot of the "AMOG" rules that I have seen about eye contact and general cleanliness etc...

thanks for the advice

I could talk for hours about what you just written here, but i think this will be more helpful. Watch this video of Braddock from the 21convention, he pretty much covers a lot of what you asked here.

http://www.the21convention.com/2009/05/ ... pe-1-of-1/

take care

~TK

just to add...its no good knowing alot of people if youre not in the right seat. rather lead/dominate a small group than be a nobody in a big group. Start leading people in small herds and eventually others will see you as a leader and will naturally fall into place and 'want' to be led by you too. its all about respect. the leader always has the most respect (most times). and yes women go bizurk for leaders as im sure you are aware.

Thanks, i was looking for a video like that.

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its a good video with good principles which can be applied for social circle game, but does anyone know of any good material for uk uni's? just felt like some of the stuff dosent apply here.

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Awesome video, thanks alot. He seems like he knows what the hell he's doing. Do you guys have any more like it? Or possibly and in field college game videos? Thanks again