I've had this problem recently.

I'm txting a girl she sounds like she's ready to hang out and she's into me, but when the time comes, she makes up an excuse like "I have to talk to my parents first" or "It's my boyfriend's birthday"

Or shit like that.

Do you think it's an excuse or do you think the girl really has no comfort building with you?

Any of you guys have this problem?

I want to hear from personal experience you guys have gotten from such things.

Of course after embarking in this PUA journey for the past few weeks I'll assume she's just not comfortable with me yet and/or blowing me off on purpose.

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First off, calling is usually better.

There is always a chance that her excuses are actually real, but I would say its a safe bet to say she's blowing you off on purpose. Hopefully you haven't really pushed this too much, that might make you come off as needy or too into her. I would say freeze her out. Freeze outs are proven to cure situations like these. Just ignore her texts for a little while, and always sound uninterested and distant when actually communicating. After that, she'll try to qualify herself to you all over again.

And one more thing, when you try to get her to "hang out", remember not to make the event about her. Say something like, "Hey I was gonna go shopping, you can come if you want." Make plans for something you were going to be doing anyways.

Thanks.

Yeah I've froze her out many times haha.

I've talked to her on the phone recently 'cause she said "Please can we start talking again?"

We were gonna hang out or go to the carnival but she said "let me ask my parents if I can go " (strict fag parents) and she never called me back...

Oh well I gotta "freeze" her out permanently.

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dude it's just a normal Flake, don't freeze out, it's poitnless, just go online and research dealing with flakes
Btw: finally someone in the community with a nice haircut!

V3nu