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PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 8:06 pm 
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so ive had a problem lately.. some of my friends are getting a little jealous of my game. so naturally they feel threatened and want to turn me down a couple notches when im out sarging without their knowledge. problem is, some of them have always had better natural game than me, but i have the advantage of being a second year home student of the seduction community..

so heres the scenario: if im with maybe 5-6 of my friends at a party/club, theres maybe 1 or 2 girls im trying to target at the same time as the other 5-6 friends are targeting one of them, and at the same time at least 2 of the 5-6 people have higher status than me, and they start attacking my game, mostly with a couple of unharmful NEG's that can still damage some DHV'ing on my part, and seducing the girl im working on sometimes with more success... sometimes they even get outright rude, and playahating. that means pissed off.. i didnt do anything really to piss them off except making theire game seem oldschool.. what am i supposed to do here? how do i respond to the NEG's? keep in mind most of theese people are really gangsters, and i dont want any trouble with my friends, just because my game suddenly improved 20%... thanks


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:03 pm 
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They dont sound like friends to me. Are you a gangster? If not, find new friends...hell either way I would find new friends. friends should want to see you succeed, not get jealous. Theyre the opposite of wings by the sound of it, they wreck your game instead of fueling it.

Another thing....why are you all gaming the same girls in a club? go off and find new ones, let them do their own thing.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:54 pm 
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Yea, sound like pretty bad friends there mate

I'd just ignore the AMOGing, problem is they are your mates...

You should really just bring this up with them, tell them to stop being douches

edit : and if not, get some new pals!


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:25 pm 
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Tbh sometimes it seems the harsh reality of this world is sometimes having to leave the past behind and move forward, that includes having to leave behind some of your friends. Its just a way of cleansing people who bring about negative traits, such as drug addicts or alcoholics who have to move away from that history. I'm not saying thats quite the same but sometimes old friends enforce bad habits.

As you become better socially, making new friends shouldn't be too bad. I guess some of my friends from my home town I've kind of grown out of since, so I have new ones in uni and around London.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:51 pm 
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friends screw things up man , even if your friends don't want to steal ur target they still can fuck things up.

try to get some PUA friends who are cool or get friends who understand you


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