hey guys, I'm very new to the world of "PUA" (still trying to memorise acronyms). There is a chick at the tafe (college) i go to that really grabs my attention. I'm 16 and guessing she is around the same age and is about HB9 (looks i would say about 7-8 but the vibe that i get from her personality takes it to 9).

my problem is well i guess AA, i am completely fine in social situations with familiar people or lots of people. but, when it comes to one on one with a girl... well idk i don't really go there. Im more of a relationship kinda guy in the sense that im not just looking for sex.

this chick seems like a really sweet babe, and is the only chick in a long time that has made me this crazy for some one.

i guess what im saying is i cant really screw anything up when i take the first step, cause i dont wanna be like "owell plenty of fish in the sea" and move on. and yes, i guess i do have "one-itis" but i dont want that to be a bad thing.

i have never seen her with guys and she is either by herself or with 1 maybe 2 friends, so i dont think there would be much competition. i have read Mystery's M3 modle, and only really have that to go off.

i got a mate that is a member on this site who is gonna help me get over my AA by going to the city and doing the newbie mission, any suggestions or opinions that could help me out?

thanks for reading, Mike

Yeah, A great advice on AA is doing it. You can plan all day long, but you want to be spontaneous. Start right now by saying hey to everyone you see and in a bit it will get easier to handle.

- Exerio

Why do start by just saying hi / greet her with any sweet words every time you see her. Start by being nice and then make friends. That is the usual game so you can get close to a girl and have fun.

well, the only time i ever really see her is when she is sitting down, or out of reach when im in class. i did once get up when she walked into the lunch room, i walked pass her and was gonna say hi, but she didn't look up at me so woulda been kinda wired just saying hi when she looking at the ground. I think she is a kinda shy chick too, so i don't know if she would feel comfortable with a random guy comeing up to her, though by saying hi when ever i can i guess that will eliminate some degree of me being a random.

bump,

AA is a buzz kill, i have an article posted on my website about it, its probably about half way down the page. the link is in my blog.

in Australia do you go to college at 16?

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hey man. my suggestion is to firstly, get over your AA, and then start gaming other chicks for practice. this will also help you get over your one-itis. what usually happens when you have one-itis is that you fuck up cos you get all nervous and shit from over-thinking the whole situation when you finally do approach the girl.

Enigma, TAFE isn't exactly college, it's like entry courses for uni.. and trades etc.. not that it really matters..

anyway, Mike! I suggest that the next time you're in the cafe or whatever and you see her .. whether she is by herself or with her friends, just go up to her and say hi, and ask for the time .. that's seriously all you need to do.. get the time and say thanks and walk away.. IT IS AS SIMPLE AS THAT.. you're pretty new to this so baby steps.. you dont even need to THINKG about going up to her and starting up a conversation ... YET

leave that for another day..

Just remember to have good eye contact when you're asking her and make sure you kino her when you're saying hi, just to get her attention..

After that .. you may see her the next day walking towards you .. all you gotta do is say "hey how you goin!" and possibly add something about the time .. "you know you saved my life there yesterday by telling me the time .. " .. and she'll be like.. "oh really how!?" "uhh.. i'll tell you later .. how's your day been?"

and there you have it .. you've started a conversation with a person you pretty much just met the day before!!!!

and if later on she asks you about how she saved your life.. that is a HUGE ioi .. (indicator of interest, just incase you dont know the lingo yet )

good luck buddy..

hit me up with a pm if you need .. im in brisbane too

peace

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thanks a lot Tnvir, for pretty much that whole response cleared a lot of things up. I'm pretty sure I can do that I'll give it ago.

say she sees me latter and i'm using my phone (obviously has the time). is it a good or bad thing when a chick knows you are trying to make moves on them?

I'm at the Tafe in Alexandra Hills, so you probably know it.

Just say you needed the time cause your phone was being repaired and you needed to go collect it! Haha .. seriously though just say you didn't have your phone with you at the time! There's no need for her to get suss about that, so she probably wont suspect you're hitting on her..

It can work both ways.. But it's a good idea to keep yourself a little mysterious so she doesn't quite know if you're hitting on her or not .. just try and have fun

Yeah i know of alex hills.. I used to go to Yeronga Tafe though.

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