So heres the story.
i met this girl about 2 months ago. K-closed and number closed that night and arranged to go out the following week. We started texting in the build up to going out and on the day i text her to finalise the details, she flaked and didnt text back.
I left it a few days and we started texting again, i didnt mention her flaking and then tried to arrange a date again.........and again she flaked. So i kind of lost interest but we still text now and again. She text me the other day asking if i was going out that night but i was busy when she text and forgot to reply, i spoke to her a few days later and she was like 'oh so you are still talking to me then?' and went on to remind me that i hadnt replied to her text that day so anyway we chatted for a while and she said she had to go but would text me and that i could feel free to reply this time!
She didnt text me later that day so a couple of days later i sent her a text just sayin hi and stuff and she didnt reply. She then text me earlier today just mentioning she was in my area even though i was at work and not near home. I havent replied yet

So im wondering if a freeze out is a good idea? She seemed to be affected when i forgot to text her before but at the same time im getting tired of this game of not texting each other back etc. I cant get her to commit to a date with me and this all just seems a waste of time. I would like to go out with her but i dont know why shes being so awkward.

Any advice?

Hey bud,

same thing happened to me as well. I had a girl who loved to text and seemed interested while texting but whenever i went to plan a date or event or something she flaked out. What i did? i just left it man, shes obviously a flake and for sure not worth getting oneitus from. I would say freeze it out and let it go.................then bang her friends ahhaahahaha.

shes clearly not comfortable enough to meet up with you alone yet, else she would have met you!

I had this for the past 2 months with a girl...she wanted attention but was clearly too chicken shit to meet up...so i arranged to meet her out with her friends as i knew she would be more comfortable this way and at least get a shot at seeing her and creting the attraction...so met up with her,k-closed a few times and the game is now on. next time will probably meet up alone..but hey if she flakes again and oesnt want to meet up and is still a bit shy, then i'll meet her out with her friends again (and bring mine along too of course, very important to not rock up alone!).

Some girls just dont like the confrontation and need more time to get comfortable with you. so...ask her where shes going to be one night, and tell her by coincidence your friend has been asking you to go there too! fancy that...but say youre probably not going to go! then you will see if she realy wants to see you or not. (make sure you take friends along, at least one wing... else you'll look like a desperate tosser)

and sorry to answer your main question which was 'should i freeze her out?' with not replying to her...rather call her out on her flaking...just write back saying 'oooh heeere we go again, another flake from the flaker herself! '. this time she will feel like a loser if she DOES flake as she knows its not working on you and that you know what shes trying to do.