\I get the feeling that most of the regulars on this forum are genuinely fun guys to be around. They are the kind of guys that you can form a friendship with quickly and who are open to do exciting and new things.

Most PUA's are not assholes at all because they are too busy with women and out having fun.

One problem is when people don't know other people they tend to assign values to the strangers. Like “that guy must be an asshole, he's with three girls and when I approached he blew me out of the set.” No – he's not an asshole, he's just not a pushover and he's keeping the skinny, hungry wolf out of the henhouse.

Or “why do I always see asshole guys with women?” = You have inner game issues. Women are with the guys they choose to be with – you have to figure out how to present yourself in a way that women find attractive.

Once you figure out how to go out and have a fun time, you will notice that you don't see assholes around anymore.