Alright everyone I have been following the PUA thing for a while now and I am very confident in my PUA skills. I have a situation that I want to share and see if I can get some advise.

First off, I am not trying to number close or trying for a quick lay. Keep this in mind as I describe the situation.

I work with a HB8 that is in a higher position then me. Her and I hit it off really well and im doing all of the PUA things like negging, being a little cocky and cool. Basicly, I'm really playing my cards right and I'm getting all of the right IOIs. I know there is intrest in her part. BTW, shes a bit older, but thats cool, I dig MILFs.

Anyway, so my question is how do I play this with the idea that I'm not trying to bang her. My goal is really only for her to want me. If something happens so be it, but I am not trying to get her in bed right away. I want her to chase after me.

I am about to start some kino, and we'll take it from there. We already number x-changed, and shes hit me up already. I'm not gonna chase her, but I like the idea of her chasing me and me push pulling her.

SO basiclly what I am asking is how do I intensify what I have already achieved?

Thanks,
Dave

BTW, I think she is married, so again, not looking to score, just dig the heavy flirting...

Well considering what you explained, I'd just escalate with kino. If you guys are going great together, you should have started kino earlier to build a bit more sexual tension. It sounds like she's all for it. If she complies, then amp it up.

It's all about the mindset.

Yeah I planned on starting some kino. Anything else?

I just want to make a suggestion, Try to be nice to her like court her. Make her fall inlove, be sweet. Do things that a typical guy wouldn't do. make her look for you.

If she's older show maturity but try to get in that mindset that your a young and crazy guy whose looking for a good time. Older women wont have a problem latching on to that kind of man. They go for what they want, so if she initiates, push the boundries

I'm confused on the courting thing......Can you give some examples on courting? I have always learned that courting leads to LJBF zone.

I dig this! She actully has already explained to me how I seem so much more mature then all of the other people we work with.

Can you explain some real signs of her initiating? I dont't have experience with women who might already be in a relationship, and I feel that her IOI's might be much more subtle and harder to pickup...

I understand the need for her to chase you, but remember no matter how attracted a women is to you, if you dont at least do "a little bit of chasing" she will loose interest. so just make sure that you are doing your part.

mind if i ask why you trying to get this chick attracted to you but not into bed?

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Ok gotchya! Now, how far should i take the "chasing". I didnt call, or text her this weekend or anything like that. Should I have? Maybe said something a little cocky, funny? (She did this to ME once) Like I said I'm gonna start kino, and the everyday workplace flirting, but what level should I take it too when chasing?

Ok so today I did a little bit of kino and continued to handle business in the usual PUA way. So far so good even got some kino back. We'll see.....I'm gonna try taking it to the next level hear I'll keep people posted...

Things are still going smooth. I'm still negging and beings a little cocky and funny. My PUA skills seem to be working well so far as I am getting alot og great IOIs. My next questions is how often should I neg, and court? ANd how often should I be giving off IOIs to her?

If you are trying to build confort, you shoudn't neg. Tease = yes, neg = no.

Interesting, can you please explain the difference? Possibly some examples? All of the examples in the tease sticky are for settings like clubs. Remember my situation. This is a professional office.

Also, as an update, Ive been using more kino. Seems good so far. Also, she has made some "sexual" jokes a few times. Actually was a little weird.

I am still confused on picking up on her body language when SHE is sitting or talking to me.

Also, now that I am using more Kino, and still talking cool and funny, what is the next level of escalation? I need to take this little relationship to the next level, but I only have so much to work with because this isnt a club or bar, its an office.

Escalate the Kino technology you possess.

If she's married she probably lacks sexual activity in her life.

She will accept all the sexual iois you throw at her.

If she's not looking to have sex with you, however, she won't want to make out with you or hold hands or anything. Because that's ALL considered cheating.

Therefore, you're either looking to just flirt with this lady, or actually have sexual relations with her.

Pick one.

Line is drawn.

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I hear ya. If she is married and she cheats, well whatever. I'm down. I have been using more kino and it seems good so far as i metioned before, she has started making sexual jokes/teases.

With the IOI's....should I throw them out there often? I dont want to seem needy. What kind of IOIs should I be throwing out?