I'm an amateur 17 year old guy.

When I walk from my house to the shopping center I sometimes pass by cute girls (usually they're in pairs of twos). Most of them are flirtatious, and we kind of check each other out, but I never have the guts to approach or talk to them. I go to a vocational school that's out of town, so I really would like to meet a girl around here.

Today for instance, I looked back and saw these two hot girls. They saw me too and kind of giggled with each other. I immediately went across the street to meet up with my friends. They then proceeded to cross over as well and trail my friends and I. They were yelling and before we knew it they were egging us on to talk to them. I just looked back at them smiling and heard them say something like "...what... you think we have cooties?"

What prevents me from engaging with them is that I can never tell their motives. I don't know if they are flirting, or are just trying to use their sex appeal to toy with me.

I'm a good-looking guy, so I always figure that there's a good chance they're flirting. Even so, I have a fear of rejection and that voice in my head further clouds up my thinking.

Can anyone give me advice on how I can respond to a situation like this? And maybe how I can determine whether they're flirting or just messing with some guy walking down the street.

Thanks!

There is a cell phone opener I read that could work in this situation. As you are walking along look at your friend knowing those women are listening to things you say. Look at him and be like there two girls have been following me forever now. I think they are trying to stalk me or something. You know they hear you so they make some snide comment to you.

HB's: you think im stalking you?
PUA: (turn around) Well yeah, you have been following me and talking about me for a while now, that is kinda stalkerish dont you think? (note neg for stalking and opening set at one time.)
HB's: BLAH BLAH BLAH
PUA: Oh your following me cause you like me!? (act surprised)
HB's: Well DUH!!!
PUA: Well I think your kinda cute for a stalker.... (again neg her)
HB's: There you go calling me a stalker again.
PUA: Flip to new convo thread.

Drop little comments about her stalking you thru the conversation. Little negs to draw her in. Dont forget to neg her friend in the process. Do however give a false time constraint and if you can walk and trail them along at the same time, all the better. Make em chase you a bit more, and be like we have to jet into such and such place real quick, we should continue this conversation later. # close and be on your way.

Always assume they're flirting. Always assume they're interested in you. If you start off with the frame of "I don't know if this girl is interested in me and I have to find out if she is or not" you will fail 90% of the time because you'll end up supplicating in some way. If you begin with the frame of "This girl is totally into me, she just doesn't know it yet" your success will be a lot higher. If you have that frame in mind, then you can open with just a "hi" and you can be more successful than any method will make you.

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I have three ugly words to tell you kid- Practice, practice, practice.
Step one- take some time off, just for yourself, and approach every single women you see, talk to her for a few seconds and then break. Do this until you get rid of your fear of approach and numb down your fear of rejection.
Step two- get The Game, the Seduction Code, the venusian arts or any other pick up book by the experts (plenty of recommendations on this forum) and study the techniques.
Step three- go out and practice again, using the techniques you've just learned.
Step four- see what works for you and what doesn't and refine your technique. Soon enough your friends will be coming to you for advice on how to pick up girls

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