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what would you say is the best way to deal with hb 9/10 material?
That's your problem. Stop thinking of her as different because she is beautiful. Your instantly raising her value rather than finding out other reasons you should like her.
Think of it this way, imagine if every girl you ever met instantly liked you because of the colour of your hair, non of them even bothered to learn more about you or actually see if there was anything more to you, they were interested straight away because of the colour of your hair. You have no control over it, you were born with it. The thing is, you have some great thing about you (your a dancer, painter etc) and nobody starts to like you for that, they start to like the second they see your hair colour.
That's how HB9-10's feel, except rather than hair colour its good looks. They were born hot, and 90% of guys will like them instantly just because they are hot and treat them differently to other people because of it. Would you really want that?