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Depends if and how you "got friendzoned/LJBF'd." after going for something more or if you started out as Just Friends. In the second case its easier because you werent explicitly denied the other zone yet.

You could introduce sexual tension and build her comfort with it as you escalate the tension; things like teasing, playful touching, sexual arrogance, etc. Basically ignore the zoning policy and she could find herself violating it in no time.

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Another thing you should know is that its hard to "gradually get out of the LJBF zone" In most cases, you just have to be bold with it.

~TK

Make her miss you. Disappear for about two weeks. If she calls you and asks you why she hasnt seen you, or why you havent called her just answer: Havent I? And act like youre not aware of it at all. When you come back and meet her again, do the things above.

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Related question. Met this girl and we went out once, after which I got LJBF'd. The funny thing is she keeps calling/texting and asking to get together with me. I've been LJBF'd before and it basically meant "we'll chat and have fun when we run into each other," not "let's act like we're really close and have been friends for years."

Mostly though I'm not too worried about it, that's all just context. Earlier, though, she texted me saying she was at an event and bored. I replied that I was "at an event but NOT bored. "

Later I get a big long text basically saying the guy she was with was ignoring her and she wonders "why she is undateable."

I replied with "I certainly don't know why anyone would want to date you. "

So, I don't know... right thing to say? Am I in trouble when she wakes up and gets the text? Did I blow our plans for Friday night after she gets out of work?

I guess I was trying cocky/funny, but not sure I know where the line is yet...

If she wakes up to your text and gets all butthurt from your text, she's probably not someone you can have fun with anyways cuz of her LSE. Otherwise it increases sexual tension in a good way.

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Nice post Overture, that is exactly how I got my last girl friend....except i disappeared for a month not 2 weeks, and then when i did see her out in a club one night i specifically kissed another girl infront of her, and then another after that the following weekend... the next time I saw her she eventually got jealous, got cross with me and 'realised' she liked me. Funny how that happens.

Before this we were nothing but friends...the only difference is she knew i liked her, alot. it took me months of trying to get her...but i only got her when she saw other women wanted me and that i had options. try it mate! We dated after that for 5 yrs... but thats over now and its why im here i know the jealously tactic sounds really cliche, but dam it works well. its probably the height of displaying social value down to its core.