Romeo, couldnt agree more. I was obsessed with the game for a bit and my game just completely dropped in standard.
It is very easy to let gaming take over your life, but you become a nervous reck. I use the time in between gaming as a time to relax and get my head strait. You would go completely insane if you were gaming 24/7.

mind sharing the story how the game messed up the toher aspects of ur life im really intrested, im starting to feel like maybe im spending alot of time trying to game ur story would really help romeo.

Ok guys...

Basic thing, always have something better to do than pickup

The problem came when I would come back home from school and went on the internet to read the new posts, the new routines and openers and so on

I was going death wrong,

I was so worried about getting all the information possible that I left aside the practice,

That was just the first problem...

Problem number 2 came when I started practicing, I got to practice and to also read everything about pickup, and I left aside school work, and my job... Yeah, I was getting good at pickup but at the same time, I left aside other very important things like friends and school work... Now I hate to say this too, but as you get along in this game you will realize that in this game you're in your own, unfortunately most of your friends and family will try to hold you back... So again, in this game youre on your own...

I realized all of it when old friends stopped talking to me... I didn't get any phone calls and so on, I went depressed, it was horrible, that's when I realize that "sarging" is all about being social and not a predator, you sarge when you can occassionally and then on your free time,

DONT sacrifice schoool time for sarging
DONT sacrifice your good friends for sarging
DONT sacrifice your job for sarging (unless you put up a workshop)

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thanks, Romeo7!!! so, just be playful is it?

good advice romeo

Hey Romeo, you seem to know what your doing with this stuff.

I have a quick question, how much research should i do before I go out there and practice.

Thanks

Get your fundamentals down

Use The Search Function and type "The Fundamentals" by Romeo7

It's the topic I will explain in DEPTH in my upcoming seminar held along with Methuselah.

After that, go out there, and start noticing the differences

After that, read a book, Preference Double your Dating or How to be A Pick Up Artist, or even Carlos Xuma's stuff

Use them as a reference guide.

All these Fundamentals are necessary for the teaching of our Natural Game.

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amen to that man, not to get off topic, but when i kiss a girl and she is all over the place, I make sure to take control, slow things down, REALLY slow, i make sure that when i kiss her, it's so sensual that she is memorized. Like romeo said, when her arms are around you, you're in.

Hey Romeo and all of you other guys,

I've noticed that the secret society or whatnot of PUAs has become more and more exposed in the media these days. Do you think that is gonna effect anything? Like make it more difficult to use lines and openers that are commonly used in PUA circles? For example, the book has been getting very good (thats how I got introduced) and I heard that there is some VH1 show about it as well.

Let me know what you think.

Thanks,
Chocolate

Haha, hey man. This has been a topic that has been over-talked about already... to see our opinions, run a search... There are mixed emotions that would be better fit for a different thread.

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I realized one shit test I had thrown at me before I knew about PUA.

Me: (Tell a girl I smoked, but had built up a lot of C&F with prior)
HB8.5: "OMG, you have sooooo lost points in my book"
Me: "Wow, I didn't even know I was in 'your book'. I didn't think I could do any worse than zero."

BUZZ, wrong answer I know now. I DLV'd when I acknowledged it and DLV'd again when I grovelled.

My response now would have been:
Me: "Well I'm glad someone is still keeping score. Next thing you know you'll be handing out gold stars. "

Damn, son. Thats like my humor... but cranked up a few notches.

-fuzz

So would you say maybe to just game when you are in the situation and not seek it out? Just play it as it goes and continue with normal life in the mean time. And I can see how this can happen. Im new. Broke off a long relationship and wanted to get back out there and after finding this it got me really excited so Im on here alot and I think now I am ready for some practice, but I have yet to go "Hunting"

Dont think of it as "hunting"

PU is a way of life, a lifestyle.

Welcome aboard brother.

If you allow me to advice you though, start on your fundamentals.

Get some good clothing, watch your body languaje, and ask people around you that know about women, like MagicJ said once: "Association is KEY"

Welcome again

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